Venus is probably my favorite planet in the entire Solar system. Venus represents everything to do with love and romance, so you can imagine why I am so drawn to it, because talking about relationships is one of my favorite pastimes!
There is so much you can learn just knowing what your or your partner’s Venus sign is. It is the planet that tells us how we love and how we liked to be loved. It is the planet that rules our unique love languages.
Venus is the planet that brings us pleasure, beauty, and joy. It also represents what we find attractive in a man, and can tell us a lot about our type. Who we like to date and who we want to be with. Isn’t it wonderful?
Venus can be seen as our guiding light when it comes to love and the unique imprint that we express ourselves within our relationships. This social planet will always help us to embrace our softer side, and this is why it is so powerful to understand what your Venus sign wants and needs.
Not only does Venus represent our language when it comes to relationships, but also what we find aesthetically pleasurable, like the things we are drawn to when it comes to fashion, music, art, or decor. All of that is up to your Venus placement. Isn’t it fascinating?
I have many women ask me what kind of man they need to date, and the answer is very easy to see if you know your Venus sign. So, continue reading to find out what kind of man is perfect for you and who will fulfill your needs to no end!
Make sure you also explore more about Venus in astrology and your venus sign meaning in this guide.
Venus In Aries
You’re definitely a feisty one and know exactly what you want in your relationships. Your motto in life is likely: “fortune favors the brave.” You have no problem putting yourself out there and taking the lead in a relationship, but often you might find yourself getting quite bored.
You’re impulsive and you need a man who can keep up with you. You love with passion, so you need a guy who would happily fall head-over-heels with you by being spontaneous and ready for adventure.
You actually want one of those romances that epic love stories are written about. This is why you need a man who is bold and just as independent as you are. You like taking the lead, but sometimes you need a man who can take control of you by taking the reins.
Physical appearances are pretty important for you as well, you want to be with someone you find really sexy and attractive. And it is a big win when your guy isn’t afraid to be demonstrative in love with you. You need him to sing your name off the rooftops! Enthusiasm in love is a real big turn-on!
Related: Venus in Aries — How Long Does Your Love Fire Burn?
Venus In Taurus
You’re slow and steady when it comes to love, but when you love it tends to be forever. You’re not one to give your heart away easily, but when you do it needs to be just right. The man for you is someone who will give you the security and stability you crave in your life.
Love is so important to you, and you will do anything to keep it safe. This is why commitment appeals to you so much, you want to know the man you have made all your promises to feels the same way about you.
You’re attracted to reliable and dependable types. You need to know that your man will be there for you whenever you need him and that he somehow adds to your comfort, he doesn’t take it away from you. The last thing you need is someone causing unnecessary chaos in your life.
You’re also obsessed with aesthetics, and love to surround yourself with beauty. So, a good-looking man is a must, someone with refined taste and a flair for sensuality. Love needs to feel good and fill your life with pleasure. Anything other than that you can do away with!
Venus In Gemini
Love for you is a meeting of minds. You find beauty in the way a man thinks and see far beyond the physical. All you really need from a man is someone who is intelligent and knows how to awaken your mental side.
You want to have fun in love, and don’t take yourself too seriously, especially when it comes to romance. It might take a while for you to settle down because variety is the spice of life and you want to be able to get to know all kinds of people before you decide to commit.
This gives you a really good idea of what you want and need in a relationship. But as a standard, you tend to go for men who are smart, witty, and funny. A man who can turn you on mentally is all you really need in life.
You want to be able to communicate and have stimulating conversations with the man on your arm. So, if the two of you have a good rapport, and he knows how to flirt then you’re probably going to be quite happy in love!
Related: Venus In Gemini — What You Need In Love & How To Avoid Common Traps
Venus In Cancer
Romance is something you take rather seriously; this is because you tend to be quite sensitive when it comes to matters of the heart and express your love in an emotional way. To you falling in love means becoming emotionally attached to your man.
You need to feel the ultimate security with your man, and you want him to constantly affirm how he feels about you. Thus, it is probably best for you to be with a man who is rather open with his emotions and isn’t afraid of vulnerability or showing his sensitive side.
You’re unlikely to rush into anything, you prefer to take things slowly just to be sure you won’t get burned so having a man who is patient and understanding is quite a strong bonus. Not to mention how wonderful it is for you to be with someone who is loyal and reliable.
You need a man who can be both sensitive, yet still someone you can depend on for the more practical aspects of life. You want to be taken care of just as much as you enjoy taking care of others. For you love needs to feel in perfect harmony with giving and taking.
Related: Venus In Cancer In The Birth Chart — What You Need In Love
Venus In Leo
Romance is so high on your list of priorities, you just love love, and have a strong desire to be adored by your partner. You need a man who can be strong for you, and unashamedly shows you off and tells you how proud he is of you.
You like a little bit of drama in your life, so perhaps someone who doesn’t get too afraid of theatrics and spicing things up from time to time. But you aren’t always lights, camera, and action, there is a side to you that is incredibly selfless and generous.
People can’t help but be drawn to your generosity and flamboyant personality, so your man needs to feel secure enough with you to contend with quite a few admirers. But most importantly you need to be able to be yourself with your man.
If you can fully express who you are to him, and not feel shy or feel like need to dim your shine for him then you know you have met the one. Oh, and big, dramatic, romantic gestures never hurt anyone either. He should never be shy to tell you how he feels about you. You simply need attention and admiration!
Related: Venus In Leo In The Birth Chart — What You Need In Love
Venus In Virgo
You know exactly what you like. You have an ideal image in your head of the man you want to be with and you refuse to settle for anything less. Your highly critical nature is really good at discerning who is a good fit for you and who isn’t.
Even though it is really good to know what you want and deserve in life, this can often make you rather picky in fact and you might close yourself off to perfectly good partners. So, it is good to sometimes have an open mind, especially when it comes to love.
But the man you need is likely someone smart, well put together, and someone with really strong values. It is important for you to be with someone who has their life in order yet is open enough to allow you to support him by giving him a helping hand.
You out of any sign know what is good for you and it is best for you to follow your gut when it comes to love. Don’t ever diminish your standards for anyone, least of all a man!
Related: Venus in Virgo — What You Need in Love
Venus In Libra
There is no better feeling than love for you. You simply love, love. You are so romantic and live to be in a loving relationship with someone. The world is just so much better when you can experience life with a partner by your side.
Harmony is key for you in your partnerships and you need a man who is happy to work as a team with you. You need collaboration to be satisfied romantically, and this is why it is so important that you can find someone who is happy to compromise with you.
Beauty is also pretty big for you; you love men who are very attractive and charming creatures. But beauty isn’t everything, you also really appreciate intelligence and like to be with someone who can turn on your mind.
You want the whole package, someone gracious, charming, intelligent, attractive, and romantic. You need to be with a man who is happy to create a harmonious and well-balanced life with you because you want that fairytale love as your story.
Related: Venus in Libra — What You Need in Love
Venus In Scorpio
Love is all about the extremes in your case. You love with passion and immense intensity. Relationships tend to become quite all-consuming in your life, you love hard but you need to be careful that it doesn’t turn into something slightly obsessive.
You need a man who would be happy to declare his undying love to you. You want to feel overcome by his passion and sensuality. Commitment is huge for you, so you need to be with a man who is going to be serious about the relationship.
You have a deep need to find your true love. A love that will conquer all, but a love that will foster a feeling of security in your life. Thus, you need a man who sticks to his promises and is as dependable as can be.
He needs to be happy to dive deep with you, to accept all your flaws, and be happy to constantly grow and transform with you. You need to be in a relationship where love is put first and everything else comes secondary.
Related: Venus in Scorpio — What You Need in Love
Venus In Sagittarius
You’re quite the risktaker when it comes to all things romance. You need a love life full of adventure and excitement. For you is all about the journey and everything you get to learn along the way.
You can be rather fickle when it comes to love, thus you need someone who can keep up with you and keep the romance alive in your life! It is going to take a very special and unique man to tick all of your romantic boxes.
It is most important for you to be with someone who is open-minded, always ready for adventure, and someone who knows how to stimulate your curiosity. There is much you want to see of the world, so a fellow nomad would probably suit you best.
Friendship also needs to be the foundation of your relationship. You aren’t too crazy about intense emotions and getting too romantic. As long as you can be with a man who gives you your freedom, you’re likely to remain a happy gal!
Related: Venus in Sagittarius — What You Need in Love
Venus In Capricorn
You tend to take your steps towards love rather cautiously. You want to be completely sure about someone before you ever commit to them. Love isn’t something you take for granted, so it has to be just right.
You need a man who is sensible and practical. Someone who can help you feel more stable and secure in your life. You really appreciate men who are steadfast and loyal, someone who takes love as seriously as you do.
Love actually needs to be proven to you. You don’t buy it when a man tries to persuade you too hastily to fall in love with him. This behavior shows recklessness, and that is a quality you would much rather do without in your life.
You find commitment, responsibility, resourcefulness, ambition, and hard work the most attractive qualities when it comes to a man. Your ideal guy needs to tick all these boxes, and you don’t mind waiting until the perfect guy comes along.
Related: Venus In Capricorn — How Long Does Your Love Fire Burn?
Venus In Aquarius
Everything about you screams original. There is no one like you, and you love in your own unique way. Love to you needs to be all about friendship and the feeling of companionship in your romances.
You’re not the most emotional when it comes to love, and sometimes you might even be described as a little detached. You’re just not overly expressive when it comes to your emotions, but that doesn’t mean you don’t feel anything. You just express it differently.
You relate to the people you love with your intellect and need a man who is seriously switched on and knows how to stimulate your mind. A man who is open and cares deeply about the future of humanity. Having the freedom to be who you are is so important for you when it comes to relationships. No man is going to tell you how to be.
It is vital that your partner accepts you for who you are and doesn’t try to change you, but most importantly he needs to be your friend. Someone you can rely on to grow with you and do cool, exciting activities with you. As long as you can have fun, the two of you will be pretty happy together.
Related: Venus In Aquarius – What You Need In Love & How To Avoid Common Traps
Venus In Pisces
Is it possible for anyone to be more romantic than you? I think not. You are one of the sweetest and gentle souls around and love is quite an emotional experience for you. You express your feelings through compassion and sympathy.
Your love is so deep that you might be afraid that no one will be able to reciprocate your feelings, but trust me, your man is out there for you! Therefore, you need to be with someone who is super understanding and compassionate, someone who doesn’t make you feel alone in the world.
It is even better if the two of you can connect over some of the more creative aspects of life. You have a deep love for the arts, and enjoy being able to share this part of yourself in your relationships. This is why an equally sensitive soul would be perfect for you.
You might also need someone who can be your strength in life when things get too much. You’re looking for the ultimate expression of love and to be able to be with someone who is open to receiving your love unconditionally.
Related: Venus In Pisces In The Birth Chart — What You Need In Love
How Can I Use Venus In My Day To Day Life?
If you understand your Venus sign and what it wants out of life, it can make it a lot easier to become clear with your intentions and what you are looking for in a man. Each Venus sign is unique and wants something different.
I suggest studying your Venus sign and taking the qualities that appeal to you and then write a very specific list of what you want in a partner. This will make your intentions very clear and help the universe manifest your desires when it comes to attracting a man.
When you have finished writing the letter pack it away somewhere, forget about it, but still, believe that you will get what you have asked for. This is powerful intentional work and the Universe can’t help but listen to your requests.
What is your Venus sign and what have you learned about what you desire when it comes to love and relationships? Also, have you ever written a list about what you would like to attract in a specific person, and did this little trick work for you?
I am so curious to hear all of your experiences so please leave me a comment in the section below. I really appreciate hearing from each and every one of my readers.
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Wishing you all the love and happiness in the world.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,