Secrets That Venus Can Reveal About Your Love Life

Venus is surely one of the most special planets in our Universe. In Astrology, it is known as a “benefic” planet, and this means that its purpose is to do good in the world. Venus is all about relationships, love, beauty, creativity, money, values, and all the things that give us pleasure.

Having knowledge about your Venus sign can reveal a lot about your love life. It can show you why you like what you like in partners, what your love language is, and how to tap into the potential of your relationships.

If you’re interested in learning more about your Venus sign then make sure to continue reading, who knows what secrets you can discover about yourself and your relationships!

Is My Venus Sign Happy?

Did you know that certain planets prefer to be in certain signs and feel quite uncomfortable being in others? This is usually the case if you feel quite lucky in love… or maybe a bit unlucky. Venus reveals all of this!

There are three signs Venus that is particularly happy in; that being Taurus, Libra, and Pisces. Venus rules both Taurus and Libra, it feels at home in these signs and that it can do what it wants to do best in these two signs. Venus is exalted in Pisces, which means it is extremely happy in this position.

These three planets all care about achieving peace, balance, and harmony. They can express their love gently and effortlessly. Things just flow easily for those with Venus in these three signs.

Connecting to others feels natural and part of your life purpose when you have Venus in one of these signs. You instinctively know how to bring different elements together to make your life and those you love more pleasurable and likely have a deep appreciation for art, beauty, and anything creative. 

Is My Venus Sign Unhappy?

Venus can be rather unhappy in the signs of Aries, Scorpio, and Virgo. Venus is detriment in Aries and Scorpio, which means that the planet feels a little uncomfortable in these two signs. Aries and Scorpio happen to be ruled by the planet of conflict and aggression, Mars. 

This makes it quite clear why Venus would be unhappy in these two signs. While Venus just wants peace and harmony, Aries and Scorpio are quite aggressive in their pursuit of love and romance. No wonder there is quite a bit of conflict when Venus is in either of these signs!

Venus is in its fall when it is in Virgo. This means Venus has no idea how to act in this sign, it feels confused and like it can’t be heard or seen. There is no pleasure that Venus feels it can reach when Venus is in Virgo.

But, don’t fret – this isn’t a complete train crash! Having your Venus in Aries, Scorpio, and Virgo is definitely not the end of the world. It just might take you a little bit longer to get to the relationship you’re looking for and there will be a few more hurdles and learning curves you need to go through to get to where you want to be.

You just need to put in a little extra effort into your love life and realize that the journey in pursuing love is definitely going to be a little more colorful, and full of twists and turns. And believe me, the effort you put into your love life will eventually pay off!

What If My Venus Is Neutral?

If your Venus isn’t in any of the above-mentioned signs, then it is likely neutral. Basically, it doesn’t do any harm and is just comfortable where is it placed and doesn’t cause too much friction in your life in a positive or negative way.

Venus in Gemini wants to connect and build bonds with people through communication and intellect, while Venus in Cancer wants to connect through emotional sensitivity. As for Venus in Leo, you prefer to show your love with passion and a lot of creativity.

Then Venus in Sagittarius needs a lot of adventure and excitement to keep their love going, while Venus in Capricorn is all about building something lasting through common goals with your partner, and lastly, Venus in Aquarius wants to love intellectually and out of the box.

Each of these Venus placements will want to create and build relationships in their own unique way, it is just a matter of finding the perfect way to express your love in the way your Venus sign needs you to.

What About The House Placement Of My Venus?

If you’re new to Astrology then you probably don’t know much about a vital component to Astrology called the houses. There are twelve houses and each house represents a different aspect of your life. An example would be, your first house is the house that rules your body and your appearance.

While the fourth house is all about your family and the home you live in, then there is the seventh house that is all about your serious relationships, meanwhile, the tenth house is all about your career and public persona. 

And the planets “live” in some of these houses, and of course, Venus is happier in certain houses (and not so happy in others), but today I’m only going to focus on the houses Venus is happiest in. 

Venus & Most Beneficial Houses For Her:

If you have Venus in the fifth house, Venus is at its absolute strongest. The fifth house is all about love, romance, sex, pleasure, creativity, and children. You’re likely fun-loving, enjoy having a good time, and love being in the throes of a romance above all!

The first house is a pretty good spot for Venus to be in as well. Because the first house rules your body and your appearance, you are more than likely blessed with good looks. People are drawn in by your charisma, and there is definitely something extra charming about you!

You also definitely have an eye for style, and know how to draw attention to yourself by the way you dress and present yourself to the world. You’re naturally quite attractive and others find you very likable.

Venus in the seventh house is fantastic for relationships, especially long-term relationships. You find committing to a partner comes to you quite easily, and it is a no-brainer for you, you want to get married! You put a lot of your focus on your partnerships and how you relate to others.

And then Venus in the fourth house is also a great position to be in. The fourth house is all about the bonds you form with home and family. This would make you quite the fierce protector of the ones you love, and taking on the role of caregiver and nurturer comes naturally to you. You put your familial relationships first. 

And if your Venus isn’t in any of these positions, trust me, it isn’t the end of the world. Venus is one of the planets that brings good fortune and luck to whatever area it is in; it is just a little bit stronger for relationships in these four houses.

Read next: The Secret Connection Between Your Sun And Venus Sign

What About The Aspects?

If you want to take it a step further in understanding the role of your chart, you can always dive a little deeper into taking a look at the aspects. Aspects in Astrology are basically the relationship that two planets have with each other.

There are five major aspects, mainly Conjunction, Trine, Sextile, Square, and Opposition. Trines and Sextiles are seen as positive aspects, the Conjunction is neutral and the Square and Opposition are negative.

But for the purpose of this article, let’s only take a look at the Sextile and Trine to keep things positive. These two aspects show that the energy between two planets flows easily, there is peace and balance amongst them. The energy gets expressed in a natural way, and conflict is rather unlikely. 

Venus sextile or trine the Moon is a gorgeous combination. You’re likely sweet, charming, and able to form strong bonds with people. There is a strong likability about you that makes you very attractive to others. You’re accommodating and quite at ease in social situations. You’re probably attracted to sensitive gentlemen.

Venus sextile or trine Mercury gives you a great strength to be able to express exactly what you are feeling. You’re diplomatic and thoughtful with your words and try to share your positivity and love in conversations. You like to have fun and find intelligent, witty men most attractive. I wouldn’t be surprised to see a younger man on your arm either!

Venus sextile or trine Mars will make love quite a passionate affair for you. You have a strong presence and you know exactly what you want out of your relationships. Therefore, you go for what you want and feel totally exhilarated by love and romance. You know how to fight in the name of love.

Venus sextile or trine Jupiter makes you the ultimate charmer. People can’t help but be drawn in by your amazing presence. You’re extremely likable and popular and like to live larger than life. You’re attracted to jovial and adventurous types. You want a man who wants to experience and explore life with you.

Venus sextile or trine Saturn is all about commitment. You much prefer long-term relationships over short flings. You don’t mind waiting for the one because you believe in quality over quantity. To you love needs to be forever and this is why you’re attracted to mature types, and wouldn’t mind being with an older gentleman.

Venus sextile or trine Uranus gives you an edge when it comes to your relationships. It is really important for you to feel enough freedom to be yourself in your romances. You hate feeling smothered by a man and prefer going against any relationship stereotypes. Anyone a little weird and eccentric is just your cup of tea. You want your partner to stand out!

Venus sextile or trine Neptune loves from the heart. You’re deeply caring and sensitive and want all your romances to feel like a spiritual experience. You need a deep connection with your partner. You find spiritual and romantic men make you weak at the knees.

Venus sextile or trine Pluto makes you quite the intense lover. Love can easily become a bit of an obsession for you. You need to be able to dive deep with your partner and experience all kinds of depths with your man. You need to have transformative experiences with him. Dangerous, intimidating, and intense men likely catch your eye.

Long Story Short

As you can see, there is much one can divulge about Venus and how this planet gives our love life its own unique color. Working with your Venus sign can give you an edge when it comes to your dating.

If you know all the strengths and weaknesses of your Venus placement you can always use it to your advantage to get ahead with your romances. Is there anything, in particular, you found useful about this information about Venus?

What is your Venus sign, which house is it in, and does it make any aspects to other planets? And how are you going to use this information moving forward? Please let me know in the comment section below, I am so curious to see what your unique Venus stamp is on the world!

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Wishing you so much love and happiness.

Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach

31 thoughts on “Secrets That Venus Can Reveal About Your Love Life

    1. Hi Corinne!

      Ah well that would mean that you’re very particular in the kind of partner you seek. You won’t take just anyone. Your standards are high when it comes to love. You guard your heart and would rather be alone than be with someone who isn’t right for you. These are fantastic qualities I might add! Moon Trine Venus ensures that you feel VERY deeply about your convictions when it comes to a partner and your love life. You will not tolerate anyone’s crap. Treat you well and they’ll get the best of you but if they treat you badly, they had better watch out. I hope you’re keeping track of my weekly Tarotscopes and Horoscopes! I wish you all the best.

  1. Hi Ms Anna my Venus is in Cancer and it’s happening for me. I know it’s important to follow my Venus all the time. It makes me a free soul and I like it. All thank to your guidance.

    1. Hi Ansley!

      Your Venus is Cancer is describing who you are as a woman and a lover. It means you’re kind, generous, family oriented, dedicated, loving, and sensitive. If you want to know what type of guy may be best for you, find out your Mars sweetheart. That will give you the sign you’re best with or the element. I wish you all the very best!

    1. Hi Karen!

      Well as long as you two are providing attention and care to each other then yes, it can work. I don’t know if you’ve read my blog on Leo man’s compatibilities or not but I think you should. Look at Scorpio in the list. Maybe that will provide you more information you can use. I wish you a lifetime of love and joy!

  2. Hi Anna my venus is in Gemini in the seventh house but it is conjunct Saturn I also have an Aquarius moon is there any hope for me to find love?

    1. Hi Thea,

      This means that your marriage will be delayed, or your future husband should be seven or more years older than you. And also, both possibilities can happen at the same time. Love and happiness are important to you, but also difficult to achieve compared to others. Perhaps this placement makes you less affectionate and having an Aquarius Moon can make you emotionally detached with strong defense mechanisms. That doesn’t mean you don’t have emotions, but indicates that you are very careful and observant. If your Moon forms a trine with your Venus and Saturn, during your lifetime you will find true love.

      Let your feelings navigate your path.


  3. Hi Anna,

    The man I love and myself both have Venus in Aries ♈️ ?

    Mine is in the third house and his in the first.

    Do we have any chance to be in a healthy relationship one day ?

    Thank you so much,


    1. Dear Julie,

      This is one of the best aspects to have in compatibility chart. It means that you and your man speak the same language of love, share similar interests and express love and see romance the same way. He is attracted to proactive, assertive and free-spirited women who are independent and have their own interests. You should find where your Mars is located (house, sign) to see what kind of man you are attracted to. Surely, good relationship is not only defined by the Venus placement and aspects, other factors are important as well, but having a union of two Venuses, can already indicate a passionate and loving relationship.

      Sending Love,


  4. I am a pices and have my moon in taurus. My venus and mars are in aquarius both in the fifth house.
    I find it easy to find love but its harder to make them last, and often feel insecure with the partner I end up with. I feel like my sun/moon and my venus/mars are conflicting. Is there any advise on how I can deal with these aspects??

    1. Hi Miho,

      You are attracted to intellectually interested persons, open-minded and unconventional. You have a free spirit and you tend to be eccentric in your behavior or appearance. You have a strong intellect and are not very affectionate with this placement. With Venus in Aquarius you don’t like relationships that are too demanding or partners who are too needy. If you want to find a stable love relationship, then it would be possible with another free spirit who would be willing to commit.

  5. I don t know where I am placed.I am Taurus on the cusp with Aries, birth date 240444 and my partner is Saggitarious 231149

    1. Dear Carole,

      His Saturn is well connected to your Mercury. You admire his wisdom and he can bring structure into your life. You can be too hasty at times and he can see through your mind and help you to manifest your ideas into form. Having your Moons placed in earth signs indicates that you understand each other emotionally. You can read each other’s minds, you know what he things and how his thoughts are integrated (and vice versa). Having well connected Mercuries is crucial for a good compatibility 🙂
      Best of luck to you both!

  6. Hi Anna, I’m enjoying reading your emails and newsletters. I’m a Gemini born 5/29/76, Venus I believe in Gemini and Mars in Leo. I don’t know what house it’s in. Past 2 partners who were more serious were Leos, although not sure if I want to pursue a relationship with another Leo! Current love interest is another Gemini born on the cusp of Cancer, 6/20/1974. What can you share about how I approach love and the connection with this other Gemini?

    1. Hi Ro Ilagan,

      Gemini man and Gemini woman are like-minded persons with balanced connection. This means you have mutual understanding and intellectual exchange which strengthens your emotional bond. You understand each other very well and enjoy talking to one another, expanding your views and enriching your experience. This is a lovely connection. You need someone to challenge you mentally. Someone with an active and versatile mind, so Gemini man could be your perfect match!

  7. Hey Anna
    Female Leo/sun Libra/moon Cancer/rising Cancer/venus here. Yup its me, Mel! Haven’t wrote you in awhile…been busy with work and my busy three year old! I wanted to ask if you could share some of your star expertise with me on my old man…Taurus/Aries cusp sun Scorpio/moon Taurus/rising Gemini/venus. I’d appreciate it!

    1. Dear Melissa,
      Taurus and Leo have a strong degree of sensual compatibility, and the strong Bull can be helplessly susceptible to the soft touch, purring voice, and passionate desires of a Lioness. Libra and Scorpio Moons are not compatible, so compromise is required in emotional understanding. He is more intuitive, senses things on a deep emotional level, while your Libra Moon seeks harmony and balance. I hope all goes well for you both.

    1. Dear Mandy,
      Leo Venus is loyal, honest, and passionate! You want affection and attention from your partner.
      You want him to treat you as his queen! Side note, being in the 12th house, some relationships could start as a secret
      or you may find the love of your life far away (across oceans, on different continents). Good luck to you!

  8. Hi Anna,
    I’m not sure of my Venus, my birthday is 10/27/1986 , his is 10/20/1984… yes Scorpio and Libra. Your Libra man secrets books have been helpful

    1. Dear Ellie,

      The Libra man and Scorpio woman match is one that isn’t very easy. Libra man is very level headed, not jealous, and seeks balance in his life. Scorpio woman is hot, passionate, jealous, and is striving for success. In the beginning, the two are drawn to each other on a very carnal level. They’ll be impressed with each other’s looks and sexual charm. Compromise will be essential. You need to listen to each other in order to tolerate and understand each other.
      I hope all goes well for you both!

  9. Hello Anna! I have a Capricorn Venus in the 12H conjunct Sun & opposite Jupiter. What do you think that says about dating style/approach towards love?

    1. Dear Akira,

      You have a practical, ambitious and loyal approach to love and dating. The fact that your Venus is placed in your 12th house (Neptune’s house of secrets), you would rather keep your love life private and in total discretion. Venus opposite Jupiter brings joyous personality and popularity in your social circles.
      Best of luck to you!

  10. My love has a venus in Virgo and me Venus in Saggitarius… seems challenging or am I wrong? Which are good tips?

    1. Dear Brenda,

      Because of this placement, physical attraction between you is undeniable.
      Tension produced by squares (Virgo Venus and Sagittarius Venus) generates sexual chemistry, so this aspect is often found in people who are attracted to one another. So if you want proof if he is attracted to you, the answer is yes!
      You have different tastes and see romance in totally different ways. He does not fit your romantic expectations and vice versa. You have a lot you can learn about love from each other, that’s why you are attracted to him.
      I hope all goes well for you both!

  11. I have no idea what my Venus is in. How do I find this out. I was born August 22, 1938. I was born at 8:40 am. I don’t read astrologers at all, but I find you witty, intelligent and I seem to be hooked on you as I have purchased all your writings in Libra. I have just met a guy that is a Libra and you have been very helpful. Thank you.

    1. Dear Kaye,

      Your Venus is in Libra. No wonder you are attracted to Libra men! You have a strong need for partnership.
      You want harmony, balance and peace. You are an idealist and constantly striving for the best.
      Best of luck to you!

  12. Hi Anna, I’m a Gemini, dating a Pisces male. Will he step up & let me know , if he’s hiding something. He’s a Great guy, but something’s off. Thank You, Anna

    1. Hi Rosa,
      Pisces man is a water sign and Gemini woman is air. You have the capacity of creating some heavy storms for the Pisces man who may end up straying. You find it hard opening up to one another because well, neither feels safe, secure, or able to express themselves in a way that doesn’t annoy or piss off the other. On the surface, you, being a Gemini could be supremely confident and self-assured, but all that attention you seek betrays a deep sense of insecurity that is enhanced by your need for attention from him. Just don’t be needy and show him you are happy with your life and you will have his interest.
      Best of luck to you both!

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