Have you ever experienced a relationship that no matter what you did, didn’t work out?
Well, Astrology is a wonderful tool to use in relationships. It has the ability to show whether or not a relationship can make it in the long term or if it is doomed to fail eventually. It is definitely a good idea to take a look at the synastry aspects you have with someone you have feelings for because you can quickly see if this relationship is worth investing in or not.
Synastry is so useful in assessing whether a relationship has the potential for success. It can give you great insight into your relationship to see what the attraction is between you and that special man.
Learn more about the best synastry aspects for a fruitful relationship.
It is quite easy to see what the red flags are in the connection if you look at the synastry. Isn’t it better to know this before fully investing yourself in a relationship that is doomed to fail anyway?
If you’re interested in finding out what these aspects are and what you need to look out for in your relationship synastry, then keep on reading. This might save you a lot of wasted time and heartbreak!
Worst Synastry Aspects — Signs To Look Out For
In synastry, there are a few things that you can look out for to help guide you in seeing the potential success and failure of your relationship. One of the biggest signs a relationship can be quite challenging is if there are many squares between you and your partner.
Squares in synastry cause a lot of friction and challenges between two people. This can lead to a lot of misunderstandings, arguments, and negative feelings. Of course, a couple of squares can keep the relationship quite interesting, but if the whole connection is based on conflict, then it may lead to more problems than what the relationship is worth.
Conjunctions and oppositions can also be quite painful to deal with. But this depends more on the nature of the planets and which signs they find themselves in.
Another red flag to look out for is when there are many aspects between Mars, Saturn, and Pluto. These three planets tend to cause a lot of disruption and drama in relationships. Neptune and Uranus have the potential for destruction as well.
When there are too many of these aspects in a relationship, it may overtake all the positive aspects two people share.
Top 7 Worst Synastry Aspects That Lead To Breakups
Not all planets have the same weight in synastry. There are a few planets which are more sensitive than others. Conflicts between these can lead to pain and quarrels in the relationship.
Here are the top 7 synastry aspects you need to look out for that can lead to breakups.
1. Moon Square/Conjunct/Opposite Saturn
The Moon is one of the most important planets when it comes to relationship Astrology. This is because the Moon is the ruler of our feelings and emotions. It is the thing that governs our deepest and most intimate reactions. It is how we respond to the world around us.
Saturn on the other hand is the planet of restriction, responsibility, duty, and Karma. When it comes into contact with the Moon, feelings of repression and isolation might come up in the relationship.
It can feel like neither party really understands one another. This can be extremely painful in a relationship. All the Moon person wants is to feel loved and supported by the Saturn person, but they just end up feeling unloved and abandoned by them.
Often the Saturn person can be quite oblivious to the Moon person’s feelings. It is as if they don’t know how to access the love between each other. All of this can lead to quite a lot of pain in the relationship.
2. Venus Square Saturn
Venus is probably the most important planet when it comes to relationships because it is the planet that rules love, romance, connections, as well as relationships.
While Saturn restricts everything it touches and can be quite cold and detached. When this aspect comes up in a relationship it can lead the Venus person to feel isolated and alone in their love.
Whatever they do, they will never be enough for the Saturn person. Many misunderstands may come up in this connection that can lead to quite a bit of pain and conflict.
Saturn will continue to block the love of Venus as it restricts them from being able to express their love authentically. This is a very hard aspect to contend with as it can cause a lot of hurt feelings.
3. Mercury Square Mars
Arguments are the center of this aspect. Mercury is the ruler of communication and expression, while Mars is the planet of war and aggression. When there is a tough aspect between these two planets, it can cause many painful fights.
The energy of this aspect is explosive and fiery. This couple won’t be able to contain their anger and are likely to express it in quite an unhealthy way. They might feel triggered when they try to communicate and have a hard time expressing themselves in a productive manner.
Their communication styles might lead to frustration and constant arguments because they can’t seem to understand each other. They get extremely triggered by one another. Power struggles seem to be at the forefront of this union.
4. Mars Square Saturn
Mars and Saturn are both known as malefic planets in Astrology. This means that these planets have the potential to do a lot of harm and can cause quite a bit of conflict between each other.
These two planets are not easy and can cause quite a bit of pain between two people. They have the potential to really hurt each other. Mars is a planet that moves quickly, is aggressive, and doesn’t think twice before acting.
Saturn on the other hand is slow, cold, and detached. When these two planets square each other, it can lead to major pain in the relationship and an eventual breakup.
These two individuals will have different expectations of the relationship. One of them will want to move quickly, while the other one will go at a very slow pace. This will lead to all kinds of conflict that can be rather detrimental to the relationship.
5. Mercury Square/Opposite Mercury
Mercury is the planet of communication and intellect. I often think that Mercury is actually quite overlooked when it comes to romantic relationships. But communication is the foundation of a healthy union, and if two people don’t understand one another, it can be quite difficult to have a flowing relationship.
When Mercury is in conflict with the other person’s Mercury it can lead to a lot of drama due to miscommunication. These two will find it impossible to understand one another.
Poor communication will destroy even the strongest of relationships and cause a lot of heartbreak in the union. If you want to learn how to communicate better with your partner, based on your Mercury sign, check out here.
6. Mars Square/Opposite/Conjunct Pluto
Both Mars and Pluto tend to be extremely violent planets that can cause a lot of destruction in a relationship. These planets can be extremely intense and make the attraction between two people off the charts.
However, these aspects have the potential to be quite abusive in a romantic relationship. Themes of control and manipulation are quite common in these dynamics.
This connection can feel quite alluring and seductive which makes it incredibly difficult for this couple to let go of one another once they have established their connection. The drama can be quite addictive.
This relationship will go from one power struggle to the next. Feelings of jealousy, possession, envy, and obsession can come up in this dynamic which can be extremely destructive if the couple isn’t careful.
The problem with this dynamic is that it tends to be quite physical and can make the sex between this couple out of this world. This is why this couple will have a hard time letting go of this union, despite all the pain that comes with being together.
7. Venus Square Neptune
If there is one synastry aspect I would be quite cautious of it is Venus square Neptune. Although Venus and Neptune are relatively friendly planets, Neptune unfortunately often makes it quite difficult to see a situation clearly.
Neptune is the planet of glamor, illusion, spirituality, and creativity, but this planet also tends to make matters quite hazy and difficult to see reality. In a Venus square Neptune connection, it is very easy to think that the relationship is perfect and that there aren’t any major issues in the union.
Because of this aspect, a couple might be in quite an abusive relationship but struggle to see the problems for what they truly are. This can lead to slow destruction over time in which both individuals completely lose who they are as they can no longer recognize themselves in the relationship.
What Does It Mean If You Have One Of These Aspects In Your Relationship?
If you happen to have one of these aspects in your relationship then you must know how difficult the relationship can be at times. There is constant conflict, especially if you don’t have other aspects to help balance out the bad with the good.
When you have one of these aspects you can safely assume that you are on borrowed time in this relationship, especially if there aren’t other aspects that make the relationship easier.
I think it is quite important to have a bit of conflict in your romance as it can make the relationship quite interesting. But if there are only negative aspects, then it can make the relationship extremely painful. You need some good to make the relationship work.
Understanding Your Relationship Chart
Reading this article, I am sure you must have realized how important it is to know the dynamics of the synastry you have with your partner. This is why I always say it is so invaluable to know what is going on in your Astrology synastry.
It can unlock so many secrets and doors of opportunities for you because you get to know your relationship on such a deeper level. This gives you power and authority over your life because you know exactly who you are and where you are going in this union.
I cannot stress how much I recommend having your Synastry Chart read. It will change your life and equip you with so much knowledge about yourself, but not only that, you will understand the people in your life on such a deeper and more intimate level to help you navigate your relationship better.
I hope this article was somehow meaningful to you, and that you understand more about yourself and the aspects of your synastry now.
You are now better equipped to take on your life and the challenges that come your way in your relationship because you know exactly where you need to be headed.
Remember to embrace your strengths and work on your weaknesses, and always be open to growth and expansion.
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