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How To Communicate Better With Your Partner, Based On Your Mercury Sign

Hello, my lovely ladies! In my articles, I often focus most on the Moon and Venus signs when it comes to relationships. But there is one more planet that should never be ignored when speaking about love, and that is Mercury.

Mercury is the planet that governs the way we think, speak, and our style of communication. And as we all know; communication is at the core of any relationship. If you don’t know how to speak to your partner, then you could be in big trouble!

Understanding your Mercury sign is vital for your relationship. It can give you an indication of what your intellectual needs are in your relationship. Some people need a physical connection with a partner, others an emotional connection, while someone else really needs that mental connection to feel fulfilled.

Your Mercury sign influences so much in your relationship, from your texting style, to how often you would like to hear from your partner, also if you prefer calls or texts. And because we live in such a digital age, a lot of the dating process takes place online where we are constantly signaling and sending messages out into the world.

Knowing your communication style can really help you to understand what your intellectual needs are. So, if you’re interested in finding out more about this topic then please keep on reading.

Mercury In Aries

Being a woman with a Mercury in Aries makes you rather assertive and forceful; you will be heard! You have a direct style of communication and prefer to say it like it is. You aren’t prepared to hold anything back because you are concerned about the truth.

You prefer people who are open and honest with you because you like knowing where you stand. You aren’t one for texting all day or staying on the phone for hours on end, you’re just too busy and impatient for this.

You prefer communication to be short and sweet, where you can get your point across or make arrangements. Some people may see you as combative or argumentative in the way you speak, but the truth is you are just passionate about getting your point across.

Mercury In Taurus

With Mercury in Taurus, you tend to be methodical and slow at making decisions. You want to weigh everything up before you commit to something because once you do, it is for life. Other people may become frustrated with your slow approach, but this is what makes you feel comfortable.

You take your time getting to know someone, and you speak slowly and with purpose. You are very deliberate with the words you use and think carefully before you say anything; you have an understanding that words carry weight.

You don’t mind texting or talking on the phone, as long as it serves a purpose. You would hate to invest all of your time speaking to someone and it not leading anywhere. This is why you take your time getting to know anyone – you like being cautious!

Mercury In Gemini

You are the Queen of Chat and simply love talking and communicating. You are likely glued to your phone! You just really enjoy speaking to people and sharing your message. You are quick-witted, curious, and highly intelligent.

When you find someone fascinating, you want to talk to them quite often. A mental connection is really important to you because, without it, you can get bored rather quickly. You may take offense if someone ignores you or doesn’t respond to something you have said.

However, you need to remember that not everyone else is as communicative as you. Don’t take it personally. Communicating with your love interest is a priority to you, you want to know how they are and what they are doing. The conversation is at the heart of your relationships. You simply adore it!

Mercury In Cancer

As a Mercury in Cancer native, you have a sensitive and empathetic manner. You know just how to connect your emotional world to the words you say. This can make you quite sentimental and intuitive in the way you relay a message.

You’re incredibly thoughtful and pay close attention to what is being said. This makes you an excellent listener and someone who gives wonderful support. When communicating with a partner, you need to feel a strong emotional connection with them.

You are likely to enjoy quite romantic and sweet messages of affection. Everything you say is saturated with feeling and you have no problem making others understand the way you feel. In fact, you are quite poetic!

Mercury In Leo

You are dynamite, that is for sure! The way you talk is rather persuasive, dramatic, and authoritarian. People sit up and listen when you have something to say. There is a side to you that is quite performative as well, whatever you say just sounds so exciting.

Having Mercury in Leo makes you come across as rather warm and inviting, but you also have a tendency to be passionate and stubborn with your opinions, never shying away from a good debate.

When you speak, you want your partner to pay full attention to you because you need to feel heard and appreciated. At times you can be demanding and expect your man to reply to your messages in an instance. You might want to learn some humility and realize you aren’t the only person who matters.

Mercury In Virgo

As a Mercury in Virgo woman, you are all about the facts and attention to detail. You’re highly analytical and do thorough research on each and everything that comes your way. It is important for you to be informed.

You can be rather calculating and won’t say anything out of step because your integrity means everything to you. When communicating with your partner, you tend to be matter of fact in the way you speak and rather rational, however, there are times where you might give in to your neurosis and come across as quite anxious.

It is important for you to have a partner who can appease your mind and any insecurities you may be feeling. Communication is important to you, as you find it really necessary to have a strong and stimulating mental connection with your partner.

Mercury In Libra

Being a Mercury in Libra gives you the best of both worlds, you are highly intelligent, but also beautifully poetic. It is important for you to have a mental connection with your romantic partner. You love being wooed with words and you are quite a wordsmith yourself.

Everything you say sounds like honey, and any man will be taken with the sweet things you have to say. You are quite passionate about the arts and really enjoy discussing anything to do with culture.

Communication with your partner is of extreme importance to you, as you are quite a social creature. You build a connection through the rapport you and your partner share and when you hear from them through little texts and calls, it can really light up your day.

Mercury In Scorpio

Being a woman with Mercury in Scorpio is quite something! You have a deep and probing mind; you just want to know each and every little detail about your partner because you find them endlessly fascinating!

The conversations you enjoy most are about the intangibles in life like religion, the occult, and the paranormal. Anything a little off-kilter fascinates you to no end. You want to dig way beyond the surface with someone and know all their secrets.

Communication and deep conversation are the building blocks of any relationship with you. You may be very secretive yourself, but this doesn’t hold you back from finding out everything you possibly can about your romantic partner.

Mercury In Sagittarius

You are a philosophical thinker, that is for sure. You have the mind of a seeker and you want to explore each and every avenue the world has to offer. The perspective you have is rather large, and you can get lost in adventure and theoretical ideas.

You are extremely opinionated and have a bit of a boastful attitude; when you think you are right you will make sure the world knows this! However, you are still open to learning and you enjoy any experience that broadens your mind.

An intellectual connection with your partner is a must, but you have a lot going on and texting and constant communication isn’t your thing. You much prefer those in-person and in-depth conversations!

Mercury In Capricorn

No one can fault you for being serious when you have Mercury in Capricorn. Your mind is methodical, rational, and highly analytical. You are the type of person who only says something when you know it is going to add to the conversation.

This makes you rather matter-of-fact and straightforward. You say what you mean, and mean what you say. You aren’t very emotional and open in your ways of communicating and might struggle to be vulnerable and express that softer more feminine side of yourself.

This may make it a little more difficult for you to cultivate that feeling of connection with someone, but luckily you have the gift of perseverance and through sheer will and patience, you can teach yourself to become a little softer.

Mercury In Aquarius

You are one of the smartest girls around. An intellectual connection with your partner is an absolute must! You possess a mind that is blessed with innovation, creativity, and forward-thinking. You tend to think in broader terms.

You love communicating and having fun and inspiring conversations, but there is also a side to you that can be quite cold, detached, and aloof. This can be intimidating for a man and make it a little difficult to actually get to know the core of who you are as a person.

However, you absolutely love technology and enjoy communicating online and over text. You enjoy checking in throughout the day, as long as the conversation is fun, exciting, and thought-provoking.

Mercury In Pisces

Having Mercury in Pisces is quite lovely. You have a dreamy mind and a seriously creative imagination. You couldn’t care less about the practical and pragmatic, your mind is solely focused on the magic that exists in the world.

This makes you quite the romantic, and you have a way of wooing any man with your words. However, you aren’t the most consistent when it comes to communication, and you only touch base when the mood takes you. But when it does you are usually sweet, charming, and highly compassionate.

You enjoy connecting with your partner, but checking in and communicating isn’t always the top of your priorities. You tend to get lost in your own inner world and any romantic partner needs to realize that you need your space and it is normal for you to disappear from time to time.

Read next: Your Greatest Strengths, According To Your Zodiac Sign

My Final Thoughts

Knowing what your Mercury sign is can be really empowering for you in your relationship. Focus on your strength and let your partner know what you need from him. Communicating this can be a game-changer in your relationship.

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Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach



10 thoughts on “How To Communicate Better With Your Partner, Based On Your Mercury Sign

  1. Hi Anna- How synchronous that I received this email from you just as I was about to text my Sagittarius love interest. And I have received the same email previously- so I think it was the universe intervening! I have your book on Sagittarius Men- and have appreciated all of your insights. Getting this email again has given me the sign I asked for this morning about what to do. This has been a 1-year, long distance relationship- we get together once a month, but he is a workaholic, self-employed and rarely makes time for himself. There are times when he goes silent- always claims being overwhelmed, but I struggle with feeling isolated. I am a super busy, self-confident and independent woman so I am fine- but he really keeps me guessing. So thankyou- I am waiting him out!

    1. Hi Jennifer!

      Wow it does sound like the universe giving you signs. That’s fantastic! If you haven’t used your free VIP consult with me yet (came with your purchase) then you might email me so I can help you a bit further. Go back to your email and it should give you my email address. I look forward to hearing from you again. Blessings!

  2. As a Capricorn woman I have to be careful how I text. I get misunderstood and he has said I was harsh. Never ever meant to be harsh. That was a wake-up call for me.

    1. Hi Susan!

      I understand how you feel careful how you text. Yes, you can get misunderstood by those who do not understand how you think. I think you’re doing the right thing by being careful as you are. Now that you have a handle on that, you can do better going forward. I’m proud of you sweetheart! I wish you all the very best!

  3. Anna,
    The man I fell in love with when I least expected it, has been ignoring me. When we first met we had a conversation about what we were both looking for. He didn’t want a girlfriend, and made it pointed clear he wouldn’t be a “sugar daddy,” and I had no desire for a sugar daddy. I wanted, and still do, a life partner. Things were going great, and then all of a sudden it went south. Very south. He is a Virgo. What advice can you give me?

    1. Hi Tara!

      Yikes… ok Virgo is a tough cookie. They get something in their head and run with it. He probably found what he perceives as some flaw and now he cannot stop mulling it over which tends to mess things up. They’re great at self sabotage. Tell him you don’t understand why he’s gone quiet and would really like to talk to him to solve the issue. He will understand what you’re saying and hopefully explain to you why he’s been ignoring you. If he doesn’t then you may have to just give up trying to reach out for awhile. Let him try to sort himself out.

  4. I’m a saggi with mercury in Scorpio, yes deep conversation are a building block for my romantic relationships. I do get curious whom I’m about to share my lifepath with and want to know what this male that had come into my life is all about, and yes I do dig deep. Better the devil you know.

    1. Hi Shay!

      Mercury is a great planet to look at but you may also want to compare with what you know or what you can find out about him such as his Venus, Mars, and rising signs as those are the best to figure someone out romantically or relationship wise. If you can get that information, have your charts compared. It will give you so much information you’ll know what to do. I wish you all the very best!

  5. Both mine and my special someone’s Mercury signs are spot on and seeing it in writing shows me once again that I need to continue to learn and understand all the aspects of him and just watch our relationship grow.

    1. Hi Rachael!

      That’s great, I’m glad to hear that you found the information very relatable. Be sure you find out what his Venus, Mars, and Rising signs are to compare with yours. That will really load you up on understanding. I wish you all the very best sweetheart!

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