Isn’t Astrology just the most amazing tool for self-improvement? There is just SO much we can learn and unpack when it comes to the planets and signs in the sky, it is incredible and the reason why I have devoted my life to this science.
It gives me so much joy knowing how much the planets help the women who follow me. I have heard so many success stories of women finally getting the love life they have always dreamed of because of Astrology, and I agree!
It is so empowering knowing what, how, and why certain planets influence us in certain ways, and there are a couple of planets that really influence us in our love lives. Isn’t that amazing? I thought why not share which planets you always need to keep an eye on when looking at your love life and how to live up to the potential of what these planets represent in your life.
In my personal opinion, the three most important relationships planets in Astrology are definitely the Moon, Venus, and of course, Mars! There is so much you can learn about your love life if you just take a look at these three planets
So, what are you waiting for? Continue reading to find out more about how each of these planets influences your love life in their unique way and how you can harness their power to really live up to the highest potential of your romances!
The Moon, The Secret To The Depths Of Your Soul
The Moon rules our emotions in Astrology. It is the thing that represents the way we respond to the world on a basic instinct. It is our reactions, the way we show our vulnerability, our intuition, our daily habits, and all the little rituals we do to feel safe and secure in the world.
The Moon is definitely very sensitive but seriously packs a punch in our love lives. Out of all the planetary bodies, I think the Moon is probably the most important and helpful when it comes to understanding our relationships.
After all, our emotions are the way we relate to others and show our empathy and compassion to the world. It is also the way we respond to the highs and lows of life, the joys, and the heartbreaks.
When I look at the chart of a couple, the first thing that I usually look at is if their Moon signs are compatible. This by far outweighs what I see when I look at their Sun signs. You can see the way two people respond to each other’s emotions by looking at their Moon signs.
Did you know that each planet is either comfortable, uncomfortable, or totally neutral in a particular sign in Astrology? When it comes to the Moon, it is most comfortable in Cancer or Taurus, so if you have your Moon in either of these signs, you are lucky!
Because the Moon is all about nurturing, and taking care of needs it makes sense that the Moon would thrive in these two signs. Both Cancer and Taurus are very nurturing signs and love to take care of others.
But unfortunately, the Moon is quite unhappy in Scorpio and Capricorn. These two signs have a tough time expressing their emotions and find it hard to be vulnerable or let their guard down. They tend to have all their emotional walls up and it can be hard for them to let other people in.
All the other signs would be considered neutral, but it is a good idea to take a look at which element the sign falls in. There are four different elements in Astrology, namely; Fire, Earth, Air, and Water.
The Fire signs consist of Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius. Earth signs are Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn. Air signs are Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius while Water signs are Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces.
Each of these elements makes it easy to tell how the Moon would express themselves in this element. Take Fire, for example, they tend to be passionate, bold, fiery, and forthcoming with their emotions.
Earth signs tend to be down-to-earth, practical, and reliable, while Air signs intellectualize their emotions and express the way they feel through thinking and communicating. And lastly, Water signs are usually quite emotional, intuitive, and sensitive.
If you would like to know if you are likely to get along with someone based on their Moon sign the best rule of thumb is to check if you share the same Moon sign element or if the two elements are complementary.
Fire and Air work well together, as well as Earth and Water. When your Moon sign is in a good relationship with your partners it is usually quite a good omen for your relationship to be successful because the two of you can relate to each other on an emotional level.
Understanding your Moon sign also gives you an opportunity to be able to express your needs easier to the person you are in a relationship with. This makes moving through relationships so much easier.
Venus – The Most Romantic Of The Trio
Ah, Venus, the planet of love, romance, and pleasure – need I say more? This planet will tell you everything you need when it comes to your love life. Venus is the planet that rules your likes and dislikes.
If you have a type when it comes to dating, you can pretty much blame your Venus placement for this. If you have a thing for bad boys, you might have your Venus in Aries or Scorpio. If artistic, creative types are more your thing you likely have your Venus in Leo or Pisce
Venus is the way you express yourself in your relationships and the way you want to be loved. You might say Venus is the clue to your love language when it comes to Astrolo
Venus is just like the Moon and feels more at home in certain signs, these signs would be Taurus, Libra, and Pisces. Venus really gets to shine when she finds herself in one of these signs.
But this also means she is uncomfortable in other signs and romance might feel trickier for her to express herself in the signs of Aries, Virgo, and Pisces and neutral in the rest of the Zodiac.
Do not get discouraged when you see that Venus is placed in a trickier sign. This does not mean you are destined for relationship failure – not in the least! You might just find a different, more challenging journey to find your prince.
When love and romance don’t come to you easily, you are likely to be more grateful and work harder for it. So don’t be discouraged by any means. Venus just simply colors in the way you love and like to be loved.
If you want to know if your Venus sign is complimentary with your partners, you can follow the rule of thumb I mentioned above when it comes to the elements in the section about the Moon signs.
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Mars – What Gets You Turned On?
Mars is the planet of sex and desire. While Venus might be the planet that helps you to fall in love, Mars is the planet that helps you in bed. It is the planet that drives you in life and gets you what you want.
It is also the planet that comes out in the bedroom. It pushes you to pursue your carnal pleasures because it rules what turns you on and what gets you hot and heavy. If Venus rules all the lovey-dovey aspects when it comes to love, then Mars rules all the raw passion.
This is why it is so important to know what your Mars sign is when it comes to experiencing pleasure in the bedroom. If you know your Mars sign you are more likely to understand your turn-ons and turn-offs.
Mars is particularly important in a man’s chart, while Venus is more important in a woman’s chart. Knowing your man’s Mars sign can be game-changing in your relationship, because of this you will know exactly how to please your man and get him super turned on!
Just like Venus and the Moon, Mars also feels more at home in certain signs, like Aries, Scorpio, and Capricorn, and a little more like a stranger in Taurus, Libra, and Cancer and neutral in the rest.
One of the best ways to see if you and your man have amazing chemistry is to see if your Venus sign and his Mars sign are compatible. You can follow the same rule of thumb as with the Moon and Venus.
That being if your signs are in the same element, or are in complementary elements like Fire and Air or Earth and Water. If they are the chances of the two of you connecting are extremely high and you can expect to have quite an exciting sex life together.
These are just some tidbits to unlocking the best love life for you possible. Astrology is a wonderful way to help you navigate through your relationships. It is definitely one of the best ways to understand yourself and others.
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If you have any questions about your Moon, Venus, or Mars then leave me a question in the comment section below. I am so excited to see what more you would like to know!
Wishing you all the love in the world
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,