As a Relationship Astrologer, finding out more about how and why the signs are motivated to love is totally fascinating to me. I think that it’s spectacular that just by knowing the positions of the stars and planets, we can grasp just how we will best be able to show affection.
The best part is that we can use this information to understand ourselves, as well as those around us. So, if you’ve ever wondered if there is positive intention behind the actions and words of your loved ones then I can help you know what to look for!
Read on to find all the ways that you can best express love and what to look for in others trying to express their love to you based on Sun signs.
Aries
Fiery and bright Aries has no lack of passion, but they often struggle to express their caring through traditional words and romantic displays. Instead, you’ll find that Aries best express their love through physical action.
Whether it’s sex (an Arian favorite), play wrestling, or passionate kisses, Aries is going to feel best showing their love through being in the physical space of their loved ones. Though, they’ll usually prefer actions rather than passively touching and snuggling!
If you are with an Aries who struggles to express their love to you verbally but still loves to pick on you, mess around, and give you passionate lovemaking, then trust me, you’re totally the love of their life – even if they don’t know how to say it!
Taurus
Taurus is going to show their love by making sure you know how beautiful they think you are. Taurus is ruled by Venus, planet of aesthetic appreciation. Their feelings for you are intricately entwined with their appreciation for your beauty, and when they are in love with you, they consider you to be beautiful no matter what!
Taurus is the sign that will be nuzzling, sweetly caressing, and holding you. They love their hands on you even if it doesn’t lead to sex. They enjoy sensually touching your body and keeping you in their vicinity.
Taurus loves to give more physical attention than you ever thought you’d need! If you ever doubt your Taurean’s love, then it’s time to ask how often they’re appreciating your physical beauty and keeping their hands on you. If they are doing those things, then they are head over heels in love!
Gemini
Gemini, more than any other sign, will be telling you just how much they love you. They are comfortable in the world of words and so they will be happy to keep you in the know about their love and affection for you at all times!
Gemini’s will be wooing you with love notes, texts, DMs, and verbal expression of their love for you. You’ll be getting texts at work when you’re Gemini is missing you and you can expect a lot of witty banter when you get home if your Gemini is really in his feelings!
A Gemini won’t hide their affection for you, as they aren’t shy with their expression. Just keep your ears open for declarations of love and check your notifications for the same! If you’re getting those things from them, then you can rest assured that he only has Gemin-eyes for you!
Cancer
Cancer will provide for you some of the most pure, unadulterated love in the Zodiac, because they simply want to take good care of you. They show their love by making it known that you have nothing to worry about and they are right beside you.
Cancer shows their love in any way that is nurturing and sweet. They might have your breakfast made for you every morning, keep your bed made, or hold you when you cry. Every little emotional need that you have they want to be fulfilling for you.
To know if you’re loved by a Cancer then just mention something that you’re craving, a need that you have, or something within you that doesn’t feel fulfilled. If the Cancer is rushing to take care of this need, then you are in luck because your Cancer is totally in love with you!
Leo
Leos in love have a knack for making you feel like a queen! They are highly skilled at making you feel like the best of the best, because they just love showing you off – like you’re the top prize at the carnival and they’ve won!
Leo love is unmistakable, because you’ll notice that they talk about you all the time to their friends and family. They have no desire to hide you in the corner, but rather, they’d like put you on a pedestal and parade you around town!
Leo love is big, bold, and obvious. Big, ridiculous, cheesy displays of affection are totally their jam, and they are thrilled to be able to declare their love for you to the world! You won’t ever question the love a Leo has for you if they really are in love with you.
Virgo
Virgo can provide some of the most subtle yet totally sweet love in the Zodiac through their acts of service. They are motivated to show their affection for you by making sure all of your little stresses and mundane worries are all taken care of.
Virgo has a great ability to just simply take care of the things that need taken care of, and if you have cumbersome tasks that need done, then the Virgo is going to be taking care of them before you even think to! Virgo is such an efficient worker that they don’t mind helping you out.
If you are ever questioning the love of your Virgo then ask yourself, do I find myself with all of my little chores and annoyances taken care of inexplicably? If it’s a yes, then your Virgo has fallen for you head first!
Libra
Libra is one sign that isn’t difficult to read when it comes to finding out if they are in love with you. They express their love by celebrating everything about your existence. They simply adore you and they are wrapped up in the idea of you and them!
Libras are traditional romantics, and you could find little hearts with your name in them, you’ll see them staring at you with a dopey look on their face, and it will be quite obvious that you are their whole world. Libras are lovey-dovey and to them, you are their end all be all.
If a Libra is with you, they are in love with you! It’s that simple. Libras, even in the most strained relationships, will try to the death to fix a relationship. They have no qualms doing anything and going any distance for their partner.
Scorpio
Scorpios are one sign who loves fiercely, deeply, and authentically. They might not be the fluffiest romantics, but they sure are the most protective! You should be looking for this protective energy and the feeling that they really value your influence in your life and would do anything to keep it there.
Scorpio will be the first to come to your defense and to keep you around. They’re the type where you may have to ask them to relax a little when they find out someone wronged you! They would gladly go and have a stern talking to with the one who bothered you.
Scorpios will desire to keep you near them so they can properly defend you from anyone else. They adore your love and get just a wee bit paranoid about keeping it! You’ll have to be prepared because a Scorpio in love does nothing half-way.
Sagittarius
Sagittarius is going to be the type to express their love for you by exploring with you! Sagittarius is a sign that doesn’t strictly need a partner, but if they want you and love you then they’ll want to be independent with you… together!
Sagittarius will show their love for you by asking you to come with them on adventures. Sagittarius would be okay with going on these adventures alone, but a Sagittarius in love will still invite you, and in a way, this is the purest type of love.
You’ll know a Sagittarius loves you when they ask you to be with them for activities that they’re really okay with doing alone. They don’t need you there, but they want you there. If you are partnered with a Sagittarius that wants you to learn and grow with them then you must be a total winner!
Capricorn
Capricorns are a sign that can struggle to express their love for others, so it can be hard to catch even if their love is genuine. You’ll know that a Capricorn is in love when they insist upon providing for you. Capricorn values pragmatism and common sense, so to them the most authentic way to express love is by ensuring that your basic needs are covered!
Capricorn has a way of taking care of your physical body and making sure that you want for nothing physical. They’ll buy you things, pay your bills if they can afford it, and keep a roof over your head.
If the Capricorn is willing to do what it takes to make sure that you are taken care of in every physical way then you should know that their heart is full of love for you!
Aquarius
Aquarius is a sign that will show you that they love you by being there for you and being your friend. They have an uncomplicated love style that expresses itself by providing camaraderie. Aquarius is a sign of community so they will desire to make you feel less alone when they are in love!
Aquarius will be the one to bring you out to gatherings and community events with no shame if they are in love with you. They are happy to make you feel like you matter as a human and that you are decent and good. Aquarius will always remind you of your spot in the big picture when things go bad!
You’ll know that Aquarius loves you truly when they refer to you as their best friend and when they treat you as such. If you are doubting your romantic love, then ask yourself if they think of you as their friend first and lover second. For an Aquarius, that’s their form of true love!
Pisces
Pisces will show you love by caring deeply about your feelings. They will not hesitate to dive into the murkiest depths of human emotion just to walk with you through your inner storm. Pisces in love will know your moods immediately and rush to stand by you while you experience them.
Pisces is such a genuine lover since they are already naturally connected to the Universe and universal love. If a Pisces is in love, you are the Universe in a nutshell to them.
You’ll know a Pisces is in love with you when they make it a point to pick up on and guide you through your every loss and trial. They will be with you happily even when you don’t feel like being with yourself.
Read next: What Kind Of Man You Need According To Your Zodiac Sign
Wrapping Up
Reading your loved one can be hard, especially if they’re not the communicative type! If you take away anything from this list, then please remember that everyone shows their love in a different way and no way is better than another!
Find out what your love language is and what the love language of your partner is and then look for that instead of defaulting to boring romantic standards! Love can look like anything as long as it comes from a good place.
How can you tell that your partner loves you? What’s their Zodiac sign? Let us know down below in the comments!
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Wishing you all the luck in the Universe,
Anna Kovach
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Cancer for me and 100% true am also talking to one that is Gemini and this is exactly what is happening
Talking to a Cancer and this describes him to a T. Sweet and worries about me.
Met a Scorpio I’d love to hear from again but he keeps his feelings so close, not sure how he feels. I’m a Pisces who loves them both.
Relationships aren’t any easier at 55!!! All in Gods hands
Dear Anna thank you so much but I need to drop my Taurus guy I am Aquarius, been long distance dating for 15 months he is using me for sex never hug around his house he never go anywhere but work , when we ship he pays for everything, give me a few dollars for my pocket
He never say it’s a relationship or not no kisses it’s only on my forehead I cooks breakfast he live doing dinner , i got to drop him tried if been use for sex, never say he love me only a bear tight hug before getting on the plane
My boyfriend shows me he loves me by immediately reacting to my criticisms.Yesterday, for instance, l made a remark that he was being cold. He instantly did his best to make me feel better and closer to him. This is very important for me as we are on a long-distance relationship. He is Egyptian whereas l am Maltese.
Taurus women show love by their gift-giving also. I take pride in knowing my true Taurean self. Once we trust and open ourselves to someone we love, we also try not to go a week without telling that special someone, either be it as a great best friend or someone we love, as a man, how much they mean to us and how much we value their presence in our lives.
Capricorn woman with strong feelings for a Taurus man. I cannot read him. His actions say he cares for me a lot but he continues to keep me as just a friend. Difficult to deal with not knowing.
My husband is a Pisces, how can I love him the way he deserves to be loved.
I am a Libra, this describes me to a T.
Hi Deb!
That’s fantastic. Thank you for chiming in and letting me know. I appreciate feedback. It helps me do my best when writing things that will help as many as possible. Blessings to you sweetheart!
I’m a Sag woman dating a Sag man! It’s like dating myself. It’s so easy and I’m falling . So I’m going to ride the wave
Hi Valerie!
Yes, two Sagittarius people can find harmony but they can also bump heads from being too much alike. In some instances they are together for years then grow apart as they want two different paths in life. It’s always interesting to see which path they both choose. Yes, ride that wave sweetheart! Sending you lots of loving energy.
Am in love with a Scorpio am also a Scorpio too, but he’s just too difficult…..I would have love to read your book on how to win a scopio man..but the rate of doller to nira is crazy….and am just a poor village girl in love…I feel torn.
Hi Ayisat!
You may either be too similar which causes conflict OR you’re passionate in different things which can create conflict. Two same signs aren’t always perfect for each other BUT work and compromise CAN make it work. It really just depends on how much you both are willing to learn, bend, and find a way. Trust in your own intuition and heed the voice. Is it saying to find a way or is it telling you, it’s too much. Listen and do what you have to according to that. You are in control of your love life. I wish you all the best!
I’m a Leo and it’s nothing as was said I’m shy extremely shy around someone I love it’s just toldly opsite of how I actually am
Hi! I am Capricorn with a Capricorn man. He is a tough one at times. We have had a wonderful summer together in Florida, but now that I am back in Ohio, I havent heard from him. I flew back August 19th.
He was devoted in Florida and made sure in every aspect of my life I was safe and well taken care of. Wondering what’s up with this…
Hi Shirl,
One of the reasons Capricorn men seem so calculated and somewhat “cold” is due to his mistrust of most people. He’s much like the Scorpio man when it comes down to dealing with others.
This mistrust makes him constantly worry about where he’s going, with whom, and makes him cautious. Even when he seems to be into you; he’ll remember that he doesn’t trust anyone and may pull back.
Give him enough time to process what’s going on. This time for him will allow you to have your thoughts on the situation too and you can find out what the best plan of action is for this situation.
Show him that you can live without him and that you are happy with your life. Capricorn man doesn’t like drama, therefore you need to make this situation as light as possible.
Love,
Anna
I am a Cancerian, in love with a Libran man and find it very hard to tell what his feelings are for me. He knows how I feel about him and yet I cannot tell exactly if he feels the same for me as he doesn’t actually say how he feels and when I ask he just says I am overthinking. We “get together” once a fortnight but I have been seeing him every week for 3 years now. I can’t fathom whether he is just using me and I am getting quite frustrated that he doesn’t seem to be able or want to tell me exactly what he feels for me. Have read all your tips on Libran men and still getting nowhere! I do not want to push him into making a decision but on the other hand I feel quite vulnerable in the current position.
Hi Kathy,
A Libra man knows how to talk and communicate, and when he feels something for a special someone, he isn’t shy to put this into words. The number-one reason why he might be acting this way is because he’s trying to make some sort of decision about you and the relationship. Libra is notoriously the most indecisive sign of the Zodiac, and this can be really annoying.
Always remember, you deserve to be loved and respected.
Never chase love, attention or affection. If it isn’t given to you freely then it isn’t worth having.
You could try making yourself less available. If he cares for you, he will miss you and he will reach out to you.
This is how you will know.
Love,
Anna
Virgo woman here and the reading is so correct. I do everything for my man. However he is Capricorn and so hard to read at times. Although he says he loves me. Sometimes I have to question is it real??
Hi Lynda,
Trust is something that Virgo woman and Capricorn man can definitely build up VERY well but it will take time. You both have high standards and morals. It’s likely that you have value systems that match up quite well.
So don’t worry, when he says he loves you he means it.
Love,
Anna
I am Aquarius in a very new long distance relationship with an Aquarius man. We have known each other since high school (30+years) and have kept in touch on and off throughout the years since his birthday is the day before mine. Things are moving very fast and we seem to be on the same page but I can’t help but wonder if this is truly real. He’s very sweet to me and says all the right things but is he just telling me what he thinks I want to hear?
Dear Lori,
Aquarius isn’t often upfront and forthcoming with how he’s feeling or what he wants.
If you two are long-distance, you will need to ask him on a regular basis (not all the time) how he feels and how he sees things heading between the two of you. You’ll need to share how you are feeling and what you are thinking as well. Keep everything flowing as much as possible between you so that when you are together you can spend quality time enjoying each other’s company.
Love,
Anna
I’m a Sagittarius woman and I’m crazy about an Aquarius man. We have been seeing each other for almost 6 months. He still works five days a week and we only see each other on Saturday evening and Saturday night. I would like to see him more often but I guess I will just have to settle for once a week. He’s very adamant about his scheduled time. He tells me he’s very set in his ways. Of course that sounds like a challenge for me Because I’m a Sagittarius. I have this connection with him that I’ve never had with anyone else that I’ve ever dated and I truly have not dated that much. I’m this really romantic mushy person and he is not. I’m extremely open with him about how I feel about him and it’s almost like he is holding back. He did tell me that he doesn’t think that he happens to be married again. Im not sure I feel the same way.
Hi Libby,
Actually, this is a great match! Sagittarius is the Adventurer, and Aquarius, the Visionary. Intellect and communication are essential to both signs, and there won’t be a lot of resistance with these two. Even when they do oppose each other, it is a partnership that makes sense, and they will have a natural way of resolving differences. You may require a little more displays of affection, but in general neither sign is very emotionally needy, just make sure to give each other space.
Wishing you all the luck of the Universe!
Hi Anna, I’m Taurus and this describes me to a T, it is my favorite love language. I’ve fallen for a Taurus man and I’m very frustrated with him, he is so hard to read. We met 2 years ago and it’s been on again off again. Everything you have talked about in a Taurus man is true about him. He will ghost me and go cold after we’ve been together. He claims he has feelings for me, but has a funny way of showing it. When I’ve text him he won’t answer, only when it’s convenient for him. I’ve shared my feelings to him and it’s not reciprocated and I’m wondering if I should move on. I feel as though I’ve been used for intimacy. I’ve tried making other plans with him like going to a movie or an outdoor concert he agreed to, but when that day comes he stands me up or apologizes because something else came up. He’s mentioned several times of taking me fishing or going away to a cabin for the weekend and that has never happened either. I see Red Flags, but I’ve been hopeful things will change. He has shared with me that he moves slow. What are your thoughts Anna?
Hi Robin,
I am sorry you are going through such a challenging time with your Taurus man.
You have to be patient and give him some time to figure himself out and what he wants. You can text maybe once a week or so to “check in” by saying something like “was thinking of you, hoping all is well for you” or something like that. It’s simple and lets him know that you are indeed still there for him. Keep it simple!
I’m am Aries in love with a Pisces and it seems spot on for us. That is exactly how he is. Though a he makes sure to tell me he loves me everyday that he loves me and misses me if it’s been a few days since we have been together. He knows I find it easier to physically show him how I feel as well as telling him I love him
Hi Gabby,
The only challenge I see in Pisces man/Aries woman combination is that you can be dominant and you can make him feel emasculated, which isn’t good for either of you.
Emotionally you don’t get each other. You don’t need to go quite as deeply as he does. He on the other hand, needs to feel a spiritual connection with you. He is ruled by Neptune and you are ruled by Mars. You want to take action and want to seize the moment while he wants to take a deeper look and dream about the possibilities.
I hope all goes well for you both!
My guy is an Aries. We definitely don’t have problems in the bedroom it’s awesome. But we have a long distant relationship and he has disappeared on me. I think he still loves and wants me but I am not sure. He has a lot going on but he completely quit contacting me.
Hi Stephanie,
The Aries is easily the most independent sign of the Zodiac. He doesn’t need to report his fantastic feats to anyone to feel good about himself, because his own approval is all he needs. You can imagine that these guys allow themselves to get away with a lot! Don’t chase his affection and attention. If it isn’t given to your freely, it is not worth having.
I hope this situation will be resolved in your favor.
I’m in a situationship with a Capricorn man. I’m a Pisces so I understand I’m much more emotional than him. But it’s been 2 years and I still don’t feel like I’m
His “one”. I feel like a placeholder for him. He knows I adore him but still does the disappearing act every now and again. It drives me crazy.
Hi Angie,
This is because Capricorn is so much grounded and Pisces is a daydreamer. The truth is, you two can complement each other and help each other’s lives to become more balanced. Capricorn is all about hard work and recognition so showing appreciation for his efforts can help you strengthen your relationship with him. Test it. See what happens.
Don’t Date Marry or have any relationship with a Capi Man Friends with Benefits works if he lets it happen unless you know how he is as a Capi man and you Can and are up to take ALL his hot/cold ups/downs nice/aggressive behavior
Been marry to one for 33 yrs and still have troubles. Really knowing what is up with him sometimes
We had a big fight where he seems offended now he is silent no eye contact still wants to live together but not have a relationship or move forward I guess this is where Anna says the Capi is very SLOW
I don’t know what to do with him his nice then aggressive
I am Taurus woman in love with a Pisces man. We are in long distance relationship for a year now. I can’t thank you enough for all the insight and this article is spot on. I was in an awful marriage for 43 years won’t go into it… he has been by my side helping navigate my feelings and becoming a better person and welcoming back the lord who I had turned my back on and helped me to Love myself again ❤️ He on the other hand has been married 5 times he won’t open up about them yet but I get the feeling they weren’t great. He has had to battle cancer twice by himself (he says he wasn’t by himself he had the Lord) I have told him you have me know and you won’t got through anything by yourself again… just 2 weeks ago he had a TCAR (over 90%blocked carotid artery) and asked me to go with him♥️ I thanked him and let him know it meant the world to me that he let me come with him and he replied that it was a good trip because I was with him😊 we have both told each other we love each other, however it is not very, I probably say it more but am trying not to say it but I do send him letters and gifts on occasion. He won’t let me pay for anything but I do make him take some money when we go on long weekends. I have a ranch and he is a city boy lol. We don’t get to see each other as much as I would like do to being very busy with professional and ranch obligations. I am 62 and he is 63 so hopefully we can hold out til we retire🙏🏻
Dear Lynn,
This is a formidable match to say the least. Taurus woman and Pisces man are very well matched and can make each other very happy for the rest of their lives.
You communicate very well and often can tell each other how you feel without even using words. You can simply caress each other or look in each other’s eyes and can virtually “read” each other’s thoughts or moods.
I am so happy for you and glad that things are moving in the right direction!
Sending Love to you both!
Amen/ Gemini man.
He is very loving & sweet when we are alone. But IF another women gets his attention, it’s like I’m not even there! He goes into this staring back & forth or if she happens to talk to him, he gives all his attention to her!
If I say something he Denys!
Dear Liz,
If he sees a really sexy woman in person; he’ll be more excited by daydreaming about what he could do with her rather than actually going home with her to do it. This is what makes them notorious flirts.Flirting with their eyes is something that is a bit harder to control.
While the Gemini man is a huge flirt; he will not ever try to cross lines that aren’t meant to be crossed. Only a woman he’s gotten to know and is even good friends with will hear his real thoughts, so I think you are safe.
Best of luck to you!
How do you know which one loves me the most I have a Taurus and I have a Virgo in love with me but which one loves me the most and how will I find out or how will I know This is confusing to me but I need to know and how to find out Thank you for your help I really appreciate it Thanks again
Dear Bonnie,
It is simple. The one who offers his love, attention and affection freely is the one who loves you more.
Just remember that you deserve to be loved and respected. Don’t settle for less.
Sending Love.
Hi Anna
I’m a Sagittarius with a Cancer. I am so lost as how he feels for me. When we’re together is absolutely wonderful but then he just wants to be left alone for days. A lot of times he doesn’t even want to text
Dear Tara,
The sensitive Cancer man will have a very hard time trusting you so he sometimes do the ‘acting cold’ test to see your reaction. He may feel insecure and that is a deal breaker especially if you want to hang out with friends or plan your day without him. Emotionally speaking, Cancer man and Sagittarius woman are not a good match. Sagittarius woman doesn’t like to talk about her feelings very much. In fact when she’s questioned about them, she clams up and feels pressured which makes her lash out in defense. It makes her seem like a closed off person and this isn’t good for a Cancer man.
Communicate openly with him and don’t be afraid to share your feelings.
Best of luck to you both!