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The Real Truth Behind The Law Of Attraction And How To Use It To Its Full Potential

You’ve probably heard of the Law of Attraction. This is a practice made famous in the early aughts by Rhonda Byrnes in her book The Secret. However, the Law of Attraction wasn’t invented then. It stems from ancient esoteric practices that have been reborn over the centuries in many different ways. 

The Occultists call the process Magick, or Magic. The field of psychology and human empowerment may call the process “neurolingual programming.” But there are some things that make the Law of Attraction, as described here, unique. 

The Law of Attraction can be practiced by anyone, unlike other forms of ritual, ceremony, or techniques that require extensive training or initiation. The Law of Attraction is simple, easy to use, and highly effective. 

This process can be used to manifest your desired goal. Manifestation implies that you are creating, generating, drawing to you the conditions or opportunities that you desire or need to advance your growth and live up to your highest potential. 

The core of this practice is to align your energy with the energy of that which you are trying to manifest. Like attracts like. What you create is what you draw to you. This includes both emotional energy, psychological energy, and the energy reflected by your physical actions and attitudes. 

Manifestation is an automatic process, but using the Law of Attraction does require effort and focus. We’ll explore a simple process for using this principle, but first we need to explore what to expect from the process.

When The Law Of Attraction Doesn’t Work

If you’ve tried the Law of Attraction or heard people trying to debunk it, keep in mind there are some circumstances that will make it seem like this powerful law is not working. For example, if you are going through the motions but not really aligning the energy of your emotions, attitudes, intentions, and wishes with your desired goal, it probably won’t work at all.

If the process does work, it may seem to be erratic rather than flowing. The goal is to remain open minded but to give energy to the process. One of the biggest mistakes people make is believing the Law of Attraction is a matter of simply thinking about what you want or saying what you want without any power behind it.

The power of the process comes from the energetic alignment with the energy of your goal. If you are trying to manifest attraction for love, bring love into your life on an emotional level. Make time for what you love, other people you love and especially for self-love. 

If you are trying to attract abundance, maintaining an attitude of insecurity and emotion of fear will undermine the process. You’ve got to align with the energy of your goal and nurture the process rather than just wishing or thinking about what you want.

Another reason you may feel that the Law of Attraction just isn’t working could be your expectations. A key element to the Law of Attraction is that you get to the core of what you desire. You may think you were meant to be married to a specific person, but the core desire is love, devotion, family, and companionship. If you are too focused on being married to one specific person, the true love you are meant to manifest may be overlooked. 

You may be distracting yourself with a desire based on what your ego wants but which does not serve your higher path. The same is true for wealth. Abundance is subjective. You may be able to easily attract the abundance and resources you need to start a business, but if you are focused only on attracting money, this desire may not come to fruition as you expected. 

Money isn’t the goal. It’s a means to an end. If you are focusing on the means and not the end result, you’re likely to undermine yourself in the process.

The 3-Step Formula: Identify Your Desire, Give Your Desire Attention, And Allowing

How difficult is it to manifest what you desire? It’s actually quite simple. Follow this three-step formula to ensure that you don’t distract yourself during the process of manifestation. Anyone can follow these steps. You don’t need any specific training. You also don’t need to belong to any specific religion or spiritual practice.

The process can be adapted to any cultural or religious tradition to fit with your existing faith and practices. You can implement these steps in your life today to manifest what you desire.

Identify Your Desire

The first step in the process is to identify your desire. You may think you know what you want, but do you really? Do you want to build a successful business for the sake of building a successful business? Or are you hoping the successful business will serve another purpose?

Trim your desires down to the very core. Take the time to establish what you truly want. Do you want to attract love? Or do you want to attract companionship because you don’t like to go places alone? Do you want to attract a certain amount of money in the bank? Or the opportunities to do what that money will allow you to do?

Be as specific about the desire as possible, but don’t get too specific about the outcome and how you think it has to happen. This is essential because the process requires you to be open to manifesting through any (and sometimes unusual) channels.

You may discover you have several conflicting desires — love but also privacy, busy season for your business but also more time with family. If you discover that your desires conflict, try to go deeper into the core of what you really are aiming for. Perhaps it is a busy enough season with business so that you can hire more staff and have more time to spend with your family, for example.

Give Your Desire Attention

The second step is to give attention to the desire. If you want to manifest a career change but are never actively exploring how to make the change, it won’t work. You need to create space to generate the attraction energy. You also need to nurture the energetic seeds you plant in this process.

If you’re trying to manifest love but your schedule is packed solid with various obligations, where would you make space and time for a relationship? Don’t wait until your desire arrives to align for it. This process requires you to align for your desire first, then receive it. 

It’s not enough for you to just think about what you want. You need to put action, feeling, as well as emotional and psychological energy into the process. If your actions work against what you say you desire, you are energetically creating “mixed signals.” You may attract what you want, but only partially. You may end up not feeling as if the process is succeeding at all.

It’s essential to be in alignment with the goal you want to manifest. Make the time to nurture what you wish to draw to you. Give yourself a chance to go deeper into your desire so that you will embody the energy of what you’re trying to manifest.


And that brings us to the final stage. Be open to receiving what you are trying to manifest. Remember, it doesn’t have to arrive in the way you expected. You may discover that someone new is meant to be your Soul Mate, but if you are obsessed with trying to attract the love of someone else, you may miss the opportunities to form the connection with your potential new love.

It’s essential that you not get into your own way in this process. If you keep your mind open to your desire being fulfilled in any number of ways and not just in the specific way you may have in mind, you will be far better off. 

The Law of Attraction requires you to align your attitude, beliefs, emotions, and actions with the goal you wish to manifest. This can take time and it definitely requires creativity and openness. Let the Universe surprise you. You may need to release the idea that you know better than the Universe.

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Final Thoughts

Now that you understand what the Law of Attraction really means and how to use it to live up to your full potential, you can begin harnessing the power of this ancient method. It’s important to give ample focus and energy to your manifestation process. 

For this reason, taking on too much at once or just focusing haphazardly is not recommended. You don’t want to operate from a superficial standpoint. Rather, manifestation work requires you to go deeper into aligning your feelings with your goals. Otherwise, you may just be daydreaming or fantasizing, not manifesting.

But when you align your actions, attitude, emotions, and thoughts, your energy will be fully in line with manifesting the desire you wish to attract. Use this process with an open mind and let things fall into place. 

And if you’re still in doubt and looking for some further guidance, then I am here to help. I am now offering VIP consultations to my readers to answer their burning questions and help them to choose the right path. Why not try something new? It could be just what you need to find clarity in love and in life… Grab a slot while there are still some open – you won’t regret it!

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Wishing you love and light on your journey.

Your sister and friend,

Anna Kovach

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