Flirting can be hard enough on its own, but when you add in the etiquette of text-flirting, then even I get a little lost! It’s hard to know what the right tone is and how much is too much when it comes to flirting.
Are you at a loss for how to capitalize on your own texting strengths to flirt up a storm? Maybe you don’t even know where your best texting strengths lie. If this is the case, then you’re in luck, because this article hopes to inform you on where you shine!
I’m Anna Kovach, a long-time Relationship Astrologer. I’ve been around long enough to know just where each sign’s texting strengths and reservations come into play.
If you’re ready to know exactly what to play up in your steamier conversations, then look no further! Finding your sign below will provide insight.
Aries: The Texting Provocateur
If there is any sign whose texts you don’t have to read into, it’s Aries. Your texting superpower is your ability to be straightforward and hard to misunderstand even over texts.
Aries texts are usually short and to the point, so when attempting to flirt over texts, use this to your advantage. Though playing the game can be fun, your biggest texting boost is earned when you’re saying it like it is.
Aries, if you like someone, then texting them just that is sure to come off as most authentic. Your words carry heavy impact, so saying even a little is often more than enough. Your ability to bring fire and honesty to your interactions is your biggest help!
Aries, don’t hold back when you text. The only goal that anyone should have when flirting is showing their authentic colors. Whatever gets your truth across in the most real way possible is what you should aim for.
Taurus: The Slow But Sensual Texter
Taurus texters are often poky texters. They are never in a rush for anything. This doesn’t have to be a bad thing though! There is nothing like well thought out and considered answers to questions.
Taurus texters are often talking about real world plans and sprinkling conversations with that little extra something. Taurus’ are often sending texts filled with emojis and gifs, usually with a focus around cute hearts and sweet pics.
Taurus likes to show how they feel, and sometimes words don’t cut it. The Taurus texting superpower comes from the ability to paint a picture of how interested they are. They are able to entice with their attachments!
Taurus is ruled by Venus so while the texts may not come in hot and heavy, they are sure to be sweeter than sugar. Taurus can charm with their ability to be kind and considerate via text.
Gemini: The Ultimate Communicator
Gemini, you are on your phone 24/7, which means that you’re one of the fastest responders in the whole Zodiac. Texting is your playground and it’s never a boring conversation when you’re on the other line.
Gemini, you are already a huge flirt as it is. You’re a master at keeping this up even when it’s on the phone. You are interesting and communicative, keeping an engaged audience no matter who you’re texting!
Gemini, you can use this to your advantage by adding some extra sincerity to your texts. You are good at figuring out what the person you’re talking to expects from a conversation. You’re able to really push your texting skills to their max when you are fully real and authentic in every line.
Gemini, once you master putting your real feelings into every text, then the person you’re texting picks up on that energy. You’re able to create strong bonds, not matter how casual the flirtation!
Cancer: The Texter of Few Words
Cancers sometimes struggle with texting. They find it hard to communicate authentically without that one-on-one bond that they’d get by meeting someone IRL. It can take a lot to get a Cancer to message paragraphs.
Where Cancers can shine though is getting that loving and attentive energy to come through in their texts. They are the masters of intuiting when others are in a bad place. They have a knack for sending “are you okay?” texts at just the right moment.
Cancer, don’t let the distance between you and your love interest get you down. You’re able to show you care about them via text. And that can often segue into some serious flirting!
You should follow up your well-meaning texts with a sassy remark. Everyone knows that Cancers are masters at sarcastic flirting as well.
Leo: The Endearingly Cheesy One
Leo, your bright energy comes through your texts with no issue. You’re able to flirt via text most naturally out of all signs. This is because you’re likely the best sign at flirting – period!
Use your natural charm by ensuring that your voice gets through to the person of interest. As you text, the best tip that you can take into account is to put your authentic touch on every text. When you’re not speaking from the heart, others know it.
Don’t be afraid to sprinkle your texts with over-the-top emojis and all caps messages. The only way you can go wrong is by dulling your own voice. Just ensure that your real feelings are being put on display, no matter how cheesy!
Leo, be yourself above all else. Lions don’t pretend to be something they aren’t! Flirting that isn’t from the heart is the only way that you could sink the conversation.
Virgo: The Unexpected Jokester
Virgo, you thrive in the realm of messages and texting. You’re ruled by Mercury just like Gemini, meaning that sending messages back and forth is totally natural to you.
Virgos tend not to overshare via text, but they can come off as a bit robotic and business oriented at times. Though oddly enough they are also very funny when texting.
Virgos should use their humor as their advantage. Picking on their significant other via text can have both parties feeling closer by the end of it. Who doesn’t love for their partner to throw some funny shots now and then?
Virgo, break the monotony by getting some laughs. Anything that is funny while also including the other person is going to be a great bet!
Libra: The Precise Texter
Libra, you’re always attempting to be honest and fair in your communication. You can hyper-analyze every word, wondering how you’re coming off to the other person.
The funny thing about this is that you’re usually completely fine! No one typically takes offense to your sensibilities. Instead, you are taken as charming, sweet, and considerate.
The important thing is to ensure that you’re not worried about how you’re coming off to others. This nervous tension will bleed into your texts if you are.
Instead, take a deep breath and have faith that it’s all going to work out! You’re’ more than able to craft sweet and sincere texts, but only if you keep that faith that you’re doing just fine! This is the key to sending perfectly flirty texts as a Libra.
Scorpio: The Risqué Texter
Scorpio, your flirting style is a bit darker than anyone else’s. You’re more likely to dive right in, asking steamy questions and prodding for answers. You’re not afraid to make people slightly uncomfortable (but definitely interested).
What you must remember is to go by the other person’s cues. If they aren’t willing to answer questions, then it’s important to not push them.
Your appetite for juicy details is insatiable. As a result, you occasionally put people off via text when you can’t drop a topic.
Asking the right flirty questions that scratch your itch without alienating anyone is the real key to understanding your flirting style while texting. If you’re able to remember this then you’ve got a huge leg up in the flirting game!
Sagittarius: The “Left You On Read” Texter
Sagittarius, you’re so much fun to talk to, that others often flock to get a piece of your attention. However, when you’re texting you sometimes struggle! You desire a lot of freedom, even from the person who expects a response from you.
People expecting anything of you tends to make you twitchy. As a result, you’re likely to show them that they simply can’t rely on you by not answering. You might figure that at least you’re keeping your freedom that way.
If you’re interested in someone then this approach simply will not do. Potential partners want to know that they can rely on you. As a result, going ghost isn’t going to snag you many suitors.
Being consistent with your texting is the best way to let others know that you’re interested! Sometimes just being there is enough to make another feel loved.
Capricorn: The Pragmatic Texter
Capricorn, you’re not a big fan of pointless communication. Even when texting a crush. As a result, you can come off as kind of cold when your love interest is attempting to talk to you.
You could do to warm up your texts a little bit. Perhaps emojis and pictures are foreign to you, but it never hurts to put a heart, a smiley, or a cute gif. Even when it’s a struggle to make your language sweet, you can show the tone you’re going for much better when you include an extra element.
Don’t be afraid to show your true emotions. Your guard can go up easily, so it’s important to remind yourself that you’re a good judge of character! This person is likely not looking to harm you. Instead, you can relax and remember to have faith that the other party has your best interests at heart.
Once your walls are lowered a bit, then the flirty texting can commence with ease.
Aquarius: The Thinker
Aquarius, texting can feel like a huge joy and a chore to you! You really love feeling closer to your friends and love interests through the means of technology, however, you also can feel like your phone is chaining you to the responsibilities of interacting with others.
Aquarius, you can over think your messages. You see the world in a different way and you recognize that. As a result, you can agonize over your texts, hoping that they don’t see you as a weirdo.
The thing that draws others to you is your zany personality. You should ensure that this part of you comes across clearly. Others want to see it!
Thinking of your relationships with others as a means to freedom instead of a chain is a great start. When you begin to embrace close relationships then this will reflect in your texts with no issue.
Pisces: The Emotional Texter
Pisces, maybe you’ve heard people call you a crybaby in the past, but your ability to tune into your emotion is exactly what will help you out while texting flirtatiously!
You should always infuse your texts with your own magical emotion. This is by far the easiest way to have an impact in your texts! When others see your genuine feeling come through, then you’re far more likely to keep up a correspondence with them.
Maybe you’re not the most fun texter, but you’re certainly one of the sweetest. Allowing your concern for the well-being of others to come across in your flirting will help you in creating the bonds that you’re looking for!
Flex your ability to be a sweet and cuddly teddy bear via text. Offering that emotional support while also letting your romantic intentions shine through is your best bet.
Every sign has a strength when it comes to letting someone know you’re into them via text. Now that you’ve been able to identify yours, it is my hope that you can put this information to good use.
More than anything, I believe authenticity is the key. If you’re truly into someone and you show it then chances are you’re going to come across as a charmer no matter what! Never fake your emotions and you can be sure that your natural charisma will find its way out.
What do you think? How will you apply this information to your future flirty texts? Let me know down below what your new plan of action is!
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