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5 Ways To Find Out His Birth Data Without Scaring Him Away


Astrology has become increasingly popular over the last few years and as you all know, it is a wonderful tool to learn more about yourself, especially when it comes to your love life. There are so many hacks you can learn about your relationships if you simply know your birth chart. 

It isn’t unusual for most people to know what their Sun, Moon, and Rising signs are. But there is definitely still a big portion of the population that doesn’t know this information or simply doesn’t care. 

You might be dating one of these people, so it can be rather tricky finding out what his Moon or Mars sign is when he has no interest in Astrology. It might be that you feel a little weird asking about his birth data because you’re afraid this might scare him away. 

Well, guess what? There are a couple of ways around this and I am here to share with you some helpful ways to find out his birth data without scaring him away. 

5 Ways To Find Out His Birth Data Without Scaring Him Away

1. Just Ask Him Directly

How To Find Out His Birth Data

Luckily, the rise in popularity of Astrology has made it a topic that is less stigmatized or frowned upon in recent years. Some of my girlfriends will ask their potential partners directly about their birth data, and it seems to go down fine most of the time.

You can tell your man that you have recently gotten into Astrology and you would be interested in learning more about him through his chart. Honestly, most men love to talk about themselves, and letting him know what you learned about him will more than likely blow his mind.  

I always find it is way more powerful to be honest with your intentions. If you want to know more about your man, just tell him exactly why you are asking him. There is no harm in being direct, and honesty is always the best policy. 

2. Take A Look At His Facebook

How To Find Out His Birth Data Without Scaring

There are also sneakier ways to find out his birth data if you feel too shy or uncomfortable about asking him directly. Maybe you have just met, but you are curious to see what the potential between the two of you would be.

One way of doing this is by taking a look at his social media profiles like Facebook. This info is usually somewhere on his profile, so it shouldn’t be too difficult for you to find.

The most important piece of information you need to know when looking at a birth chart would of course be the actual date of birth. Although birth time and place are very important, these aspects are secondary when looking at a birth chart.

There is a lot of information you can gather by just taking a look at his birth date. All the major positions will be indicated, the only thing that won’t be accurate is his Rising sign or the aspects between all the planets. 

But there the information shown simply by the positions of the planets and in what signs they are is already invaluable.

Go take a look at his Facebook profile and check out when it says it is his birthday. Most profiles also show where someone was born in the world. You can take these two pieces of information and load them up in whatever natal chart application or website you use. 


Just state that the time is unknown or if it doesn’t give you this option, always use 12:00 noon. Even though this won’t be 100% accurate and you will have to ignore his Rising sign or in which houses the planets are, it will still give you a good indication of who he is as a person and what your compatibility is like.

3. Use Reverse Psychology On Him

How To Find Out His Birth Data Without Scaring Him

Resistance to Astrology isn’t uncommon, especially amongst men. This makes a lot of sense because women are more open to exploring the psychological and emotional sides of life than men typically are and Astrology is a wonderful tool to learn more about yourself and others.

If you’re interested in taking a look at your man’s natal chart but suspect that he might be an Astrology naysayer then you could try this little helpful tip out. Let your guy know how much you love Astrology and everything you have learned about yourself by using it.

If he disagrees with you and says something like it is a pseudoscience you can use this as an opportunity to reverse the tables on him. Tell him if he gives you his birth data to run his chart you know for a fact that you’ll shock him with the accuracy.

Most guys fall for this because they love being challenged and want to prove their point, but when you have Astrology on your side there is no way he can come up on top. Not only will you gain his birth data, but this is an opportunity for the two of you to grow closer together. 

4. Mention Your Own Birthtime

Ways To Find Out His Birth Data Without Scaring Him Away

Another sneaky way to get his birth time to come up with some statistics and say to him: “Did you know most Americans were born between 8:00 – 10:00 am, but I was born at 14:00 pm. This is so interesting; do you perhaps know what time you were born?”

This sounds totally legitimate and there is no mention of Astrology by asking this either. So, there is no chance for him to be scared away. This of course only works if you already know his birth date and the place he was born. 

There is, of course, the possibility that he doesn’t know his exact birth time, so you need to be prepared for disappointment. But he might know a general time of the day he was born, and this will help you to get a more accurate read on his chart. 

5. Ask Him If He Is A Morning Or A Evening Person

There is some evidence to suggest that the time you were born may influence if you are a morning or an evening person. Why not use this as a way to find out his birth time?

You can say to him that you were born at 8:00 pm but you definitely consider yourself as a morning person, so you totally disagree with the suggestion that time of birth influences this and then ask him what his thoughts are on this.

Ask him if he is a morning or an evening person, and then what time he was born and if he agrees with the evidence. This is a simple way to gauge his time of birth without scaring him away. 

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My Final Thoughts On How To Find Out His Birth Data

This is a really tricky subject to talk about because everyone has very different views when it comes to Astrology. Some people simply don’t believe in it, others like myself can’t live without it!

Some people also feel uncomfortable having others know too much about them (I’m looking at you Scorpio) and would much rather keep this information hidden. So, it is really good to remember to respect the boundaries of the man whose birth data you are trying to figure out.

This is why I still believe that asking him directly is probably the best course of action to take. This way you remain honest and honorable in your actions. 

Are there any methods I missed in finding out his birth time? What methods did you use to gain the information to look at his chart? What happened when you asked him directly? I am so curious to hear what you have to say so please leave me a comment in the section below. I am always so excited to hear from my wonderful readers. 

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Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,

Anna Kovach


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