If you’ve ever wondered “Is Aquarius man dominant in bed?” you’re not alone. Many women write to me with this exact question—because their Aquarius man is so unpredictable, both in and out of the bedroom.
The truth is, Aquarius men approach intimacy very differently than signs who are more traditionally dominant, like Aries or Scorpio. Their style in bed often surprises women—sometimes in the best possible way.
Is an Aquarius Man Dominant in Bed?
Aquarius men aren’t usually the type to control every move or demand submission. Instead, their “dominance” shows up in unique ways. They’re more interested in experimenting, breaking the rules, and exploring uncharted territory with their partner.
In other words, he may not dominate you—but he often takes charge of the experience. He’ll guide the energy, the mood, or even the entire setting to make intimacy feel like an adventure rather than a routine.
What Turns an Aquarius Man On?
To really understand your Aquarius man, you have to know that his biggest turn-on starts in the mind. Before he’s physically aroused, he needs to feel mentally and emotionally engaged.
Here are some of the things that make him crave you:
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Playful banter and deep conversations – He wants to feel stimulated mentally before things turn physical.
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Surprises – He loves when intimacy feels fresh and new.
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Freedom – He doesn’t want to feel boxed in or pressured.
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Emotional safety – When he feels accepted for his quirks, he opens up fully.
Does an Aquarius Man Like Control?
Aquarius men value independence too much to constantly want control. They usually prefer a balance where power shifts naturally between you both. One night he may take the lead, the next he’ll encourage you to set the pace.
But here’s the secret: if he senses that you want him to be dominant, he’ll often rise to the occasion. Aquarius men love the thrill of giving you what you secretly crave—especially if it feels spontaneous and exciting.
How to Make an Aquarius Man Chase You Intimately
If you want him to be the one pursuing you (in and out of the bedroom), here’s what works best:
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Keep a little mystery – Don’t show all your cards at once.
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Spark his imagination – Drop subtle hints that let him wonder what’s next.
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Be unpredictable – Switch things up and keep him guessing.
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Connect beyond the physical – When his mind and heart are hooked, his passion naturally follows.
If you’d like to learn more about driving your Aquarius man crazy in bed… I suggest you check out my specialized guide 27 Dirty Phrases That Turn Aquarius Man On here.
Who Am I to Tell You This?
Hi, I’m Anna Kovach, a professional Relationship Astrologer. For more than a decade, I’ve helped thousands of women all over the world understand their man’s zodiac sign—so they can attract him, connect with him, and keep the love alive.
I learned astrology from my late aunt, a master astrologer, and since then I’ve dedicated my life to helping women decode men’s confusing behaviors using the wisdom of the stars. If you’ve ever felt like your Aquarius man is hot and cold, or impossible to read, you’re in the right place.
What to Do Next
So, is Aquarius man dominant in bed? Sometimes yes—but not in the traditional sense. His real “power” is in making intimacy exciting, unpredictable, and full of discovery. If you can speak his unique “language,” you’ll find that he not only chases you but also makes you feel like the only woman in his world.
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