So you’re ready to run with the centaurs but afraid that you won’t be able to keep up with the far-roving Sagittarius? These 10 tips for attracting a Sagittarius man will help to keep your stamina strong and your spirit high while pursuing the celestial archer.
In Pursuit of Wild Beauty
The Sagittarius man is certainly one of the more accessible signs of the zodiac when it comes down to the sheer numbers game of romance. Sagittarian men are above all adventurers, risk-takers, and gamblers—they’ll try anything once, and maybe their risk of the day will be taking a chance on you!
However, even though you may play your cards right, and have lady luck on your good side, Sagittarian men still have some unique courtship challenges that you need to be aware of in order to maximize your chances of a good payout.
This quick guide to Sagittarian courtship will give you 10 sure-fire tips that will help you to hone your marksmanship skills when your target is the best archer of the zodiac!
1. Be Adventurous
The Sagittarius man is one of the most spirited and adventurous signs of the zodiac by far. Ruled by Jupiter, the mythical king of the Gods, master of expansion, good fortune, and the ultimate optimist, the Sagittarius man is a passionate, roving wanderer on both the mental and physical planes of existence.
Your Sagittarius man wants to see the world, exploring every nook and cranny of the wide, wild world as much as he also desires to delve into the mysteries of consciousness, philosophy, and the more subtle realms of the intellect.
To get his attention, you’ll need to be either as adventurous as he is, willing to explore with him and take him places he’s never been to before, or be willing to buy the ticket and take the ride!
2. Dress for Adventures (Think Indiana Jones)
Part and parcel of going on the adventure of pursuing a Sagittarius man is to dress the part.
Sagittarian men are free and nomadic spirits, preferring to don loosely fitting, free-flowing garments that don’t constrict their freedom of movement of comfort during their many wanderings.
Of course, gadgets and utility belts, along with good rucksacks, bags, and satchels are always welcome additions to the Sagittarian wardrobe—after all one never knows when some Swiss-Army knives, first aid kit, or other necessary adventuring accouterments will need to be ready on hand.
For your Sagittarius date nights, lose the pumps and dress and channel your inner Indiana Jones. He’ll be immensely impressed by your adventure readiness (and a bullwhip isn’t necessarily a bad idea either!)
3. Be Philosophically Minded (And Well Read)
Can you hold your own in discussions related to sophistry, Socratic dialogues, existentialism, phenomenology, and metaphysics? Or are you more of an eastern minded individual who possesses a compelling command of the Vedas, the Upanishads, the Analects, or the Tao Te Ching?
If yes, bravo! You’re already packed and set to go for you and your Sagittarius man’s first cerebral journey. If not, it’s time to hit the library, the web, or enroll in Philosophy 101 at your local community college and get to pondering the hardest and most important questions about the human condition.
Sagittarian men are naturally philosophically curious—they love to plumb the depths of the consciousness and beyond as much as they love to travel far and wide in the physical world. If you want to really pique his curiosity, you’ll have philosophically to engage him as well as make him your road-trip buddy.
Break out the Kant and the Nietzsche (or your philosophical topic of choice) on your next date, and if he isn’t impressed, let him lead the discussion.
Sagittarian men love nothing more than a spirited and lively debate, especially concerning lofty matters such as philosophy and theology.
So, do your background research and get philosophizing!
4. Get in Shape
Sagittarius men are natural athletes, and take their physical fitness seriously—they have to in order to keep up their adventurous lifestyles!
If you’re not in shape, you’ll need to make sure you’ve got enough stamina to keep up with your Sagittarius man. Purchase a gym membership if that is your thing, if not, you can access plenty of exercises at home using only your computer to develop your own personal diet and exercise routine.
If you’re a really low-intensity person, but still want to keep in shape, you should explore options at your local yoga studio, which is sure to have more accommodating options for your desired abilities and skill level.
The most important thing is that you develop a routine that keeps you fit enough to keep up with all of the physically engaging and rigorous activities you and your Sagittarius men will participate in together, everything else is minor details.
Pilates anyone?
5. Don’t Fence In Him
Sagittarius men are free birds, rebels without a cause, and above all, they are their own masters. They detest authority for its own sake and will have no respect for rules or social conventions they see as arbitrary or otherwise not serving their own interests, or those of the greater good.
When you are trying to win the heart of a Sagittarius man, one of the most important things to keep in mind is that you must never make him feel as though you are trying to possess him, control him, or otherwise limit his movement and personal autonomy.
The moment you become clingy or demanding is the moment he will turn tail and get as far as possible from you.
In order to cultivate an intimate bond with your Sagittarius man, you will have to respect his autonomy above all else and be ok with plenty of space existing between the two of you.
Don’t fence him in, learn to let him do him and you do you from time to time—and you will both be well on your way to building a strong and healthy relationship.
6. Learn to Gamble (Responsibly!)
Jupiter, the king of the Greco-Roman pantheon of gods, is the master of all good fortune and optimism and is the ruling planet of the sign of Sagittarius. This combination imparts not only a lucky streak but a serious penchant for risk-taking, high stake behavior among Sagittarian men.
Your Sagittarius man is a gambler in spirit, and if things pan out well between you both, you’re likely to find yourselves at the casino or the paddocks from time to time, placing your bets!
Ideally, you’ll find a healthy and responsible outlet for his risk-taking behavior that works out for the both of you—with some chance for reaping a pretty penny for your troubles.
Maybe you’ll take a liking to horse racing, but just to be on the safe side, it would do you well to try your hand at casino gaming. Brush up on your poker, blackjack, roulette, craps, or baccarat skills, or just stick to the slots!
Whatever your preference may be, find your gamble of choice and run with it! With Jupiter’s fortune smiling on your Sagittarius man, you’ll be sure to have a lucky roll before too long!
7. Be Patient
Sagittarian men have many positive qualities, their high energy levels, their deep thoughts, their adventurous spirits, and their unbridled optimism are all wonderful attributes that most people would like to have in a partner.
However, like all signs, Sagittarian men have some strong negative qualities that need to be guarded against as well. Their risk-taking behavior can often manifest in incredibly irresponsible and careless acts. Sagittarians can also be lazy and lacking in motivation for what they perceive to be superficial gestures or goals, forced upon them by society.
Sagittarian men also despise possessiveness, and for this reason, it can be incredibly difficult to develop intimate bonds with them.
In times where Sagittarian men are manifesting their more negative traits, it is important that their partners give them plenty of support and personal space in order to help them to get through their slumps.
The loving but hands-off approach is critical here, so as not to give your Sagittarius man the wrong impression. A supportive and understanding heart will go a long way towards keeping your Sagittarius man comfortable in sharing his vulnerable side with you.
8. Explore Exotic Cuisines
The Sagittarius man’s explorations are not limited only to the realms of the mind and the physical world, but also to the world of gastronomic delights!
If there happens to be an authentic Peruvian, Cambodian, Senegalese, Ethiopian, or other ethnic restaurants in your area, it would be an ideal location to plan a romantic evening together.
The Sagittarius man has exotic tastes, and he will value the experience whether he actually enjoys the taste of the food or not!
Of course, if you’re a good cook, you may choose to take matters into your own hands, preparing a home cooked meal with some new or innovative recipes and your latest batch of homebrew (if you’re really good!).
He’ll be sure to appreciate the effort, and will cherish the experience!
9. Get Domestic!
There’s truly no place like home, even for your Sagittarian vagabond. After the end of his journeys, no matter how exciting, your Sagittarius man will always look forward to returning to the embrace of a cozy, warm domestic space.
An important element in your relationship with a Sagittarius man will be the curating of a domestic space that makes him feel completely at ease, where he can be lazy and enjoy the creature comforts that he is perhaps not used to having while out and about on the road.
Make sure that even if you don’t live together, you have established a domestic space that you can share together—keep it well stocked with your favorite snacks, beverages, and diversions of choice, and keep the décor intimate, warm and relaxing.
This way, you can plan your next relationship moves (and trips) while giving yourselves a little bit of much-needed self-care!
10. Be Well-Traveled
This one should be self-evident by this point, but it cannot be stated strongly enough: the most attractive type of individual to a Sagittarius man is a fellow traveler!
A Sagittarius man is looking for a companion who shares his love of the road, exploring new cultures and landscapes, gaining new insights and experiencing new challenges before returning triumphantly home to rest a bit before the next adventure.
Ideally, you’ll already have quite a few adventures of your own under your belt before your Sagittarius man enters your life in a significant capacity. He’ll especially love it especially if you can offer advice on new or exotic locales he has not himself visited—this will lure him to you like a moth to the flame!
If you aren’t particularly well-traveled yourself, don’t fret. As long as you are open to expanding your horizons alongside him, and financially and physically able to travel, intrigue him enough and he’ll invite you to come along for the ride!
And of course, you would do well to indulge him, it could be the greatest trip of your life!
Loving the Wild Things
Courting a Sagittarius can be a wild ride indeed. You need to have an insatiable thirst for adventure, a strong sense of emotional security, a lot of patience, a high amount of energy, physical fitness, an open mind, and a willingness to take risks.
It definitely won’t always be easy (loving an unstoppable force never is), but for those who truly view life as a grand adventure, and find themselves inexplicably drawn to the great wild places and things of planet earth, a Sagittarius man could be an ideal partner!
Good fortune, as always, is a factor in everything that we do. This is particularly true when attempting to woo a Sagittarius man, with the strong Jupiter influence in his sign. However, this short guide should at give you the confidence to make your first die roll towards attracting the attention of the celestial archer.
So get ready, take aim, and fire!
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