Weekly Love Horoscope for December 9th – 15th

Hello sweethearts, and a festive welcome to weekly love horoscope reading for December 9th – 15th!

Well, the year is drawing to a close and in many parts of the world, Christmas spirit is taking hold and people are preparing for the festivities. With a first-quarter moon, there is a feeling of anticipation and quite a lot of urgency and expectation.

Now, Mercury is still retrograde in Sagittarius, which, of course, means that there is a need to be slightly more cautious and mindful to plan ahead and have backup strategies. As you know, with Mercury retrograde, anything can happen in terms of communication, travel and logistical, but the good news is it’s only retrograde for another week.

However, there is another important development: Mars will go retrograde in Leo. Mars retrograde in Leo represents a feisty, stubborn placement that makes many of us want to double down rather than being receptive to positive feedback.

It’s always vital right now to stay open-minded and to keep our egos in check, because often with Leo retrograde, our ego and expectations are not always in line with short-term reality.

Often, a little bit more effort is needed in love and relationships if we want to get the results we desire. Always remember to go the extra mile. With Venus conjunct Pluto opposite Mars in Leo there’s a heightened level of desire and intensity which can enhance sex life or explode into envy and possessiveness.

There’s lust and intensity, a compelling desire to connect with others and to fully enjoy life. The energies are somewhat uncompromising and people tend to affect each other for better or worse and maintaining a neutral position is unlikely. 

Here’s Your Weekly Love Horoscope for December 9th – 15th:

Read your weekly love horoscope, based on your Zodiac sign. Remember to check your Sun, Moon, and Rising sign for better accuracy…

Aries: Put on the red light

With Mercury still retrograde in Sagittarius and Mars retrograde in Leo, this represents a tricky time for dating, date nights, and particularly those long-distance relationships. However, it’s not only long-distance relationships—sometimes there’s friction because of your respective parents, who might be very opinionated but also rather unhelpful.

This is a time when you need to pump the brakes in love. The phrase *“Be careful what you wish for”* is very appropriate right now. It’s always important not to push hard for gratification and to keep check of your desires in love, because often what you feel you need urgently ends up only being fulfilling on a temporary basis.

You can end up burning bridges, alienating your partner, or seeding some resentment in their mind. So, it’s very important to be consistent with your emotions and communication. While honesty is the best policy, you don’t want to over-egg things. Subtlety is key right now to ensure that love runs smoothly.

This is definitely a time when friends-with-benefits relationships can become much more important in your life. A romance may develop, particularly a sexual romance with someone in your network or social circle.

Taurus: Out with a bang!

Mars retrograde in Leo indicates some stress coming from the family arena. So, this is not the best week to be planning large family events, inviting a new partner to meet your family or you to meet his, or, in general, having too much crossover between your respective families and your relationship. Boundaries are needed to ensure there’s no contamination because, often, tempers are frayed, and family relations can be volatile.

Sometimes, this is a moody time for you Taurus ladies in relationships, as when things get on your nerves, it’s hard for you to let it go. The key now is not to get obsessed with any one issue or incident. Try to let it go and work hard at seeing the big picture, which isn’t easy right now because emotions are a lot more raw and powerful.

This is a great time for capitalizing on your success at work and taking it to the next level. Even though the year is almost out, it’s still an awesome time to make a great impression on your boss, the people you work with, or your customers. Putting in a bit of extra effort and being a little bit spontaneous, creative, and audacious will work wonders in terms of your career.

Gemini: Rush Hour

The Sun in Sagittarius is opposite Jupiter in Gemini, so there’s a great deal of excitement in the air for Gemini, and it’s a very, very busy week. Mars retrograde in Leo indicates lots of errands to run, short journeys, and activities involving colleagues and relatives.

However, it’s very important not to be in too much of a rush, because invariably, you may end up having to redo things that you thought were done, simply because more haste equals less speed, and you made a few errors.

This is also a time to be careful with what you say. You tend to be very verbose and enthusiastic, but you can also be quite blunt. It’s important that you choose your words carefully in relationships. Sometimes, a partner may feel lost in the mix—that you’re not really paying attention or being a good listener.

For more sensitive and vulnerable partners, you need to note that they may be feeling a little neglected. If your relationship generally allows for a lot of independence, then your partner should be able to take it on the chin.

This should be a busy and exciting time for you. It’s also a time to rev up those long-distance relationships and internet-based relationships.

Cancer: Treats and Treasures

With Mars retrograde in Leo and Mercury retrograde in Sagittarius, you are paying attention to detail, picking up on every little thing. However, this can sometimes make you a little pedantic and critical in love, so it’s important to cut your partner a little bit of slack.

This is also a season where you often have to be more forgiving and let go. With the retrogrades, a lot of balls are being juggled, and things are being missed and so you can’t always hold everyone to the high standards you may expect of them.

This is also a wonderful time for spoiling yourself and buying nice things. A great way to bond with a partner might be to collaborate on a special purchase together or go shopping for family members or children as a couple.

There’s a great need within you to spoil the people you love most, and you have a very generous spirit about you. It’s not just about giving; it’s about sharing the choosing process with others. Try to bring your partner or lover into your world in terms of understanding how you use gifting as a love language, which is, of course, very important to Cancer.

This is a very sexually stimulating time. It’s great for relationships where you feel that chemistry—as it will be intensified right now. Even in relationships that are more communication-based, it’s time to work on intimacy, share sexual fantasies, and improve the way you relate to a partner on a physical level.

Leo: It turned out so right, for strangers in the night

For Leo, the energies are particularly explosive. Mars retrograde in Leo, plus Venus opposite Mars in Leo and Venus conjunct Pluto in Aquarius, represent that this is one of the best weeks of the year to meet a soulmate.

There won’t be a better opportunity to connect with someone truly special. Fate and destiny are in your favor in terms of experiencing that love-at-first-sight feeling. Be on the lookout for opportunities to date, mingle, and possibly get hit with Cupid’s arrow.

This is also a time when you need to demand more from your relationship. You need to both work harder, put in extra effort, and raise the bar for yourself and your partner. This is an excellent time for better communication, understanding, and focusing on your relationship to get it on the best track possible.

This is quite an insular time, where you need to prioritize your own needs and those of you and your partner, rather than trying to people-please. It’s action- and solution-driven but not necessarily a time to be all things to all people.

Virgo: Answers lie within

This is a time when you need a bit of space to yourself. You have a lot of questions and thoughts running through your mind, and you may feel anxious and stressed. There may also be some issues over which you feel a little bit of anger. You might need space from certain people in your life to process these feelings, especially as this is not a good time for confrontation.

Introspective seeking and working out the dynamics of your relationship life can lead to vital breakthroughs in your understanding and personal growth.

Often, the best way to deal with matters is by analyzing them yourself, coming to terms with them, and putting them to bed, rather than engaging in excessive communication. In fact, there’s nothing to be gained right now from long conversations. When you feel upset, walk away and count to ten.

This is definitely an excellent time for your career. There may be a unique opportunity to catch the eye of your boss or to do something particularly vital or memorable in your workplace.

This is also a wonderful time for those of you who work with someone you’re in love with, as romance could blossom.

Libra: Relationship recharge

Mars retrograde in Leo and Mercury retrograde in Sagittarius mean that it is a tricky time to mix platonic friendship and love, so it’s not a great time for friends-with-benefits relationships.

Additionally, in the heat of the moment, you may believe that there’s passion developing between you and a male friend, but it could all just be the festive spirit. It may not feel real when the cold light of January dawns.

It’s important to keep your boundaries up with friends and colleagues to ensure the distinction between your working relationship or friendship remains clear, so no one gets the wrong idea.

This is a very good time for travel and a perfect time for you and your long-term partner to jet away somewhere special. Private time to explore your sex life and deepen your connection is important. Even if you’re too busy with work to take a long trip, a short getaway to recharge mentally and emotionally can be highly beneficial.

It’s essential for you and your partner to focus only on what’s truly important. Avoid seasonal activities or functions that don’t serve your relationship. Exclusivity is key right now.

Scorpio: Pleasures and passions

The Sun is activating Jupiter in Gemini, with Venus conjunct Pluto and Mars retrograde in Leo. This creates an incredibly dynamic and determined energy for Scorpio. You’re feeling a great deal of pressure but are also able to perform at a very high level.

This is ideal for those of you with deadlines or a strong mission to complete this week. This also means you have heightened desires in your relationships. You’re seeking more satisfaction on both a physical and emotional level, and you’re putting your partner to the test. They must show you respect and loyalty, or you may become rather angry or disheartened.

It’s important that relationships right now are authentic and real. Good relationships should supply enormous amounts of pleasure. This is a fantastic time to enjoy things like fine wines, dining out, festive foods, and indulging in life’s luxuries.

In terms of foreplay, relationships are especially imaginative and more creative. However, for those love relationships that aren’t doing so well, now is a wonderful time to be honest with yourself about their direction and develop brave strategies to improve the trajectory.

Sagittarius: Love, war and Las Vegas

This is a time when you are in the limelight. Success and recognition can come quite suddenly. If you’ve worked hard all year, this may be the moment when your plans come together, your projects are a roaring success, and everyone really appreciates you.

It’s a fantastic time to supercharge your networking. It’s an excellent opportunity for throwing parties and events related to work or improving your professional profile.

This can also be a lucky time for finding a new relationship. It’s a great opportunity to meet someone who may be within your professional networks, someone you perhaps haven’t paid much attention to before. With the festive season in full swing, you have the chance to make an advance, get to know them better, and let romance bloom.

For those considering marriage, this is an excellent time—even for spontaneous or shotgun weddings. Whatever you’re doing in relationships, forgiveness and keeping the ball rolling are essential. Even if there are moments of clashing ideas or tempers flaring, keep moving forward and don’t hold grudges. All’s fair in love and war this week.

Capricorn: Trick or Treat

Venus is in Aquarius, conjunct Pluto, and at the same time opposite Mars retrograde in Leo. This creates a powerful yet intense energy. Often, what starts as passion can turn into pride or explosive anger, while anger or dislike can sometimes transform into passion.

For example, if there’s someone in your life you dislike or who annoys you, there may be some repressed sexual tension involved. It’s possible that this person is actually into you, and their behavior is an attempt to get your attention. Romantic gestures right now may not seem romantic at all because of the underlying sexual tension, anxiety, and insecurity.

In existing relationships, intimacy and exclusivity are key. It’s vital to create space to be in your own love bubble. Privacy is essential—this is not a time for excessive social media posting or attending too many events.

The best kind of romance right now involves quiet candlelit dinners, indulgent foods, and simply soaking up the atmosphere of each other’s company. It’s not a time for excessive conversation but rather for appreciating body language and physical intimacy. Massage, back rubs, and sensual indulgence are all marvelous ways to connect during this period.

Aquarius: Crisis and Culmination

This is an important week in terms of relationships. The Sun and Venus conjunct Pluto in Aquarius, opposite Mars retrograde in Leo, represent a potential culmination or crisis in love.

For some, this week can feel like everything is coming together—hurdles have been overcome, and the atmosphere is joyous and conducive to romance and a heightened sex life.

For others in relationships that haven’t been going well, this is a pivotal point. A breakthrough is possible if both of you put in effort and take time to review recent decisions. Compromise is absolutely key, as is a good exchange of quality information—no platitudes, obfuscation, or people-pleasing.

For those who are single, this is a fantastic time to meet someone new. However, you must be proactive in love. Fate may step in to help, but it’s important to get the ball rolling.

Put yourself in situations where teamwork is involved, such as coordinating Christmas events, participating in work projects, or engaging in group activities. Taking on leadership roles may make you more noticeable and successful in love.

Pisces: Reunion Magic

This is an excellent week for family events, gatherings, and catching up with people. It’s also a good time to attend reunions, such as school or workplace events, to reconnect with people from your past. These events could offer opportunities to start new romantic relationships.

It’s also a very busy time for charity work or activities where you unite with others for non-material gain. Engaging in festive, creative events is not only great for your holistic health and well-being but could also lead to meeting new people with whom you can develop romantic interests.

In relationships, self-care and understanding your own issues are crucial. Avoid projecting your emotions onto your partner. While the season may be hectic, and relationships under pressure, this doesn’t mean the relationship is failing, it simply reflects the pressure of this time of year.

Make time for self-care, even if romance isn’t currently resembling a Hollywood movie, don’t panic, stay positive and use humor as your key weapon in love and seduction. Cater to family needs, handle practical tasks, and remember that this is a season of shared experiences and emotional growth.

Summary

This is a high-energy week filled with potential for excitement. With two major oppositions—Sun opposite Jupiter, and Venus conjunct Pluto opposite Mars—there’s also potential for conflict. However, conflict can lead to breakthroughs, new perspectives, and progress. 

It’s essential to be forgiving, avoid stubbornness, and recognize areas of concern in your life. Be fearless, courageous, and take advantage of opportunities. Push your boundaries, move beyond fears in relationships, and focus on progress and growth in love.

Key phrases for this week:

Passion, Pride, Intimacy, Creativity, Excitement, Anticipation, Chaos, Confrontation 

See you again next week.

Your sister and relationship astrologer,

Anna Kovach

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